Are you a mom who undergo pain or dryness while having a sexual intercoursement?

If yes, this blog is exclusively for none other than you.

Well, Sex after childbirth is quite challenging in some women's life..

Do you know that there is a condition called VANGINISMUS in which a woman may not be able to have sex due to an intense pain during vaginal penetration ?. Yes shall we take a moment to see this condition in detail?


For some women, the vaginal muscles persistently contract when they attempt for a vaginal penetration or sexual intercoursement. This is mainly due to the muscle spasm in the pelvic floor muscles. These muscles get tighten up during vaginal penetration or sexual intercoursement mainly because of the involuntary contraction of the pelvic floor muscles.

It is said that there are two types of VANGINISMUS

1)Primary Vaginismus and

2)Secondary Vaginismus

Symptoms of VAGINISMUS :

;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;; Involuntary tightness or contraction of the vaginal muscle is the primary symptom of vaginismus.

; 1) Pain during Vaginal Penetration

; 2)Vaginal Dryness which makes the intercoursement difficult or not possible at all.

3) Unable to insert a tampon (Pain during Insertion) are the most common signs that needs to be brought to attention.

Usually VAGINISMUS needs to be treated as soon as possible. Otherwise the condition would become worse.

Men never understand this case and start accusing women for not involving in sex after childbirth. This sometimes ends up with unexpected turns in life. I have even came across cases like Divorce due to wife's lesser interests in sex.

Treatment :

VAGINISMUS is a condition that can be very easily cured. It is not a disease or diffect. Exercises like KEGEL EXERCISE would help better to relax the pelvic floor muscles.

There are few more symptoms that should be brought to notice :

The addition symptoms of VAGINISMUS includes fear of having sex, less or no desire for having sex. This fear is mainly because of the pain during penetration. However this doesn't mean that a woman is not interested in having sex. So men out there STOP ACCUSING WOMEN just for not having a peaceful sex. Instead show ur support. Give her comfort, that you will always be there with her in all her aspects.

Praise her for bringing such a beautiful child into your life. Consult your midwife or Obstetrician as soon as possible.


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very helpful post & thanks a lot for sharing dear...

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thank you for sharing this helpful post #newparent

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Thanks fr ur comments mommies.. I'll try my best to deliver even more helpful write ups...

Much needed post...👌

Very informative post

Thanks for sharing this informative post dear! I am sure it will help many new momss. Now i cant wait to read your next post!

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