#MommyTakeover #momoftwo

Mother loves all the kids, she can’t be partial, Really?

When the first child is born, a mother is born. But for the second child it’s a well experienced mom ready to face the challenges, which she has already faced. Hence there are some behavioral differences and different reaction while facing the same situation again. DO you Agree?

Let me give you a couple of instances

1. When you are expecting:

For the first baby everyone is super excited, head over heels. Everyone is around your checking what you need, what is bothering you. Once the baby is born everyone wants to see it first.

With the second one Aaa…mmm…. she know how to take care

2. Photo Shoots:

The first child: Even before your belly started showing you find the best photographer, you kept an account of growth of belly and the baby for almost two years.

With the second one… you thought a photoshoot was such a waste and did home photography that too by end of third trimester and then on special occasions only

3. Illness

The first child: Panic, why is he crying… run to the doctor

The next one: you know which medicine to give, how much to give and you even know how many days recovery time is required.

4. Attentiveness

;;;; The first child: We rushed to respond to night time crying for the baby’s sake.

;;; The next one: We rush to respond to night time crying so that she won’t wake up her sister.

5. Development

;;;;; The first child: We encouraged motor;;;; skill and ambulatory development. Praised all accomplishments.

; The next one: Most of the things taught by elder sibling and we Start worrying once he Starts running around you will be exhausted in managing two kinds in two different directions.

6. Toys

;; The first child: Got so many toys to help increase skills like activity mat, exersaucer and even a High Chair.

The next one: You accepted kitchen utensils make a better toy 😌😛

7. Benefits

The first child: Had the benefit of all your attention. Good thing because I had no idea what I was doing.

The next one: Has the benefit of my experience. Good thing because I am busy explaining to her brother why he doesn’t get all of the attention anymore.

8. Lovability

The first child: Brought the most powerful of all love into my life for the first time.

The next one: Brought the most powerful of all love into my life for the first time, again.

No matter how we react to all these things, but mom loves all the kids equally, what does your experience say???

Prisha Lalwani (Mummasaurus) Maria Abdul(the lyrical momma) Sheeba Rizvi asha chaudhry Priya Sood Yogini Kandre Sonam patel Shruti Giri Foram Laxmi Chowath Priya Iyer

Very interesting....i personally havent faced it yet but i was the YOUNGEST of 3 kids so i can relate!

What say Parul Johari; Harneet Khurana; Nisha Dayal; Arwa Hozefa; Sonam zarin; Kamalini Rao;

What a post ujjwal!!!!!!! This is superb!!!

Priya Iyer Khushboo Chouhan padha kya?!!!

Ohh it's amazing reading bout u Ujjwal Mishra(SuperMommy) !
Its super interesting Priya Sood !!
I'm also a younger child of my parents.
I think my brothers took all these advantages 🤣

Nyc one! My graduation My job for my parents was something a proud thing bcz I am the eldest but when my siblings turn came for the same thing they were happy but I guess the feeling is lill different for the 1st child.

Totally agree!! Being second time mommy is a totallly different experience!! Minus all the paranoia

So happy so many moms can relate. My brother always cribbed about it but I understood his point of view only when I became mom for the second time. 😁

Superb.. I have only one.. but I know how true is this...;

Woow...how beautifully you have explained!!!! Majja agaya😍😍😍👏👏👏👏

Superb. Exactly my story...😊

Wow.... amazing...very well written

Nice articles, not experienced this, waiting for my 1st baby to come out. :)

Beautiful ...

This is the best post that I hae came through today.; Very well described...

wow awesome article

superb ....nycly explained. 👍👍👍

Awesome..!!write up

It's really amazing n true

wow post dear...

Super post.. 👌Ujjwal Mishra(SuperMommy) But No idea about it as m the only child of my parents and not even my first has come out yet..! 😅 So no experience.. 😁 having a lot time to wait for it.. Waiting ☺

I have faced it totally

Hey Ujjwal Mishra(SuperMommy) you just fed my fears...I have always wanted to have two children but my wife is happy with just the one...she has her fears...she says what if she wouldn't be able to love the other one as much as she loves this one...what if she's not so enthusiastic with the next one in the same way as she is with this one...what if she tends to compare both of them knowing that both will be different...she feels it would be unfair of her as a mom to not be able to love both of them equally...and so she simply refuses to have another...and I have no idea how to convince her otherwise...!!

Vei nicely xplained.. as i m xpctng nd i'll hv a 2nd bby nw den vil get 2 knw ol dese chngs..
Bt as i m d eldest so i cn relate ol dis xctly happns..👌👌


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