Hope you know that i love you all and Bbc
Sorry for not being active
My Naani Maa is on ventilator in Icu and counting her days .also i have to be support for my mom and Kiwi .. look after everything and then dedicate time for my venture .. so i thought i will get in touch with all of you after everything is sorted .
But today i couldnt hold back myself .. there was; a question and few of answers in the group which highly disturbed me and i had to vent out ..
It was about Formula feeding and Breast feeding .. there were women who commented that formula is bare minimum..
Women questioning womEn for choosing FORMULA and JUDGING them .. a woman defaming MOTHERHOOD by passing on a comment on other mother .. A mother telling People that breastfeeding is tough ..bit comes with bachache nd all , and motherhood is a big responsibility .. SO BECOME A MOM ONLY IF YOU CAN DO IT .
I FEED MY BABY FORMULA AND IT DOESNT MAKES ME A LESSER MOM
Mannat is on a Combination feeding since the first month ..
Here we go there will be people raising there brows and would start lecturing me BREAST IS BEST ..
There will be Moms who would think i am lazy , i am not ready to take responsibilities , i am looking for comfort; .
Moms who would think i didnt try enough for EBF ...;;
There would be moms who would no matter what you will say will always Say FORMULA IS BARE MINIMUM and BREAST IS BEST
I respect your opinion; and would always support you guys and you will All have my respect for EBF;
I know; BREAST IS BEST; ...
And i always support and encourage new mommas to Breastfeed ..Dont give up it tought but not impossible ..
But but but
This is a message to all the people who; MOMMY SHAME
♥️Here are few things you guys need to know ...; there are thousands of mom living with guilt for not been able to feed breast milk ..; DEPRESSION AND POST PARTUM DEPRESSION IS REAL ...WAKE UP PEOPLE
♥️there are thousands of moms like me who tried every thing to increase; breast milk but nothing happened; ...;;; so what should we do Starve the baby ??
♥️There are moms who are facing medical issues and unavle to feed baby
♥️There are moms who weren't able to feed because baby was oremature baby wont suckle and what not ..
♥️there are moms - lets take example of moms who have financial issues and need to support their family .. they arent able to Ebf ..; do you think they love their baby any lesser ??;
A working mom spending 8 hours at work and then caring for family and baby .. isnt she doing great ??
I have cried in Guilt for initial months for not been Able to EBF...
But Not; anymore..
Because i know; i am doing the best i can for my Baby ..
Can someone explain me why formula is bare minimum ?? For mothers who aren't able to feed babies because of low supply , medical reasons or any other .. should they consider that they are giving the babies the bare minimum ??;;; And not the best alternative available ?;;
Shouldn't; we all support all mothers who are doing their best for the babies ..; lets respect motherhood and help mommas who are into GUILT , DEPRESSIONjust because they cant ebf
Motherhood comes with responsibility but BREASTFEEDING ISN'T THE ONLY ONE , THERE IS A LOT MORE TO IT
I am sure we all know PARENTING IS HARD ... AND IT DOESN'T ALWAYS WORK OUT AS WE HAVE THOUGHT OR DREAMT OF..;; LETS NOT FORGET EVERY BABY MEANS A WORLD TO THEIR PARENTS ANS THEY ARE DOING THE BEST THEY CAN FOR THE BABIES.
♥️♥️Please let the individual decide and make decisions for baby..;;;; its everyones personal choice AND NOBODY HAS THE RIGHTS TO PASS SUCH DEMEANING COMMENT ABOUT A MOMMA .
Stop this BULLSHIT MOMMY SHAMERS
you have no right to judge a MOMMA
LETS CELEBRATE MOTHERHOOD AND ESSENCE OF A WOMAN'S LIFE #wondermomma #rebelmomma