Hearing all the scary and inhuman deeds happening with little girls, I feel shaken. I feel that all these incidents help us learn a lesson to raise responsible sons in order to make this world safer place for our daughters.

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Being a mom of a daughter, I feel it’s time I begin to prepare her for tough. In the age of 1.5 years when the child is toilet trained, he/she should be introduced to the idea that, their private parts are PRIVATE!

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We can begin training them with good touch and bad touch by doing small things in the daily routine:

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💛 Never kiss them on lips, or chest also never entertain others to do that. Not even if it’s the neighbourhood aunty who would feel bad, or a closely related uncle doing it out of love or affection.

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💛 Only you (or the help, in case you have one) or the father can clean their private parts. Also, never hit them on their butt. Let them feel it’s not ok, when they are being touched at these body parts.

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💛 Do not encourage the child to be extra comfortable with every new Person they meet and be strict they can’t sit on their lap.

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💛 Just because they are young, doesn’t mean they need no privacy. Make sure to change them or fresh their diapers in private.

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Most importantly raise a strong headed and bold human! Teach them to raise their voice against wrong be it with themselves or others.

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It’s never too early to train them for good things and tough world. What do you guys feel, is it too early?


the best thing i read today!! thankyou!!

Absolutely correct! These teachings cannot be avoided at any cost. Girls should be able to safeguard them first by taking these precautionary things as the world outside is hypocrite.

Such measures are essential these days

Same thoughts Cheni, and good you wrote about changing diapers in Private. I have been thinking about these and yes it's just me and my husband who cleans and; changes her diaper.

I can't agree more!

Best things to do and at a right time. My baby is 22 months now nd i hv started these things. Nd she has learned some of it i came to know from last few days experience. We were in delhi at my bua's house. Nd i hv to change her shorts, so my cousin sis told to baby come i vl do, as soon as she touches her shorts. Baby immediately hold her shorts tight nd wave her head in no direction clearly. My cousin just shocked are baap re abhi se isko sharam ati hai. Nd i was like yes acha hai na. We never know when baby understands these small things. Somewhere deep inside i was very happy

I totally agree cheni it's very important to teach these things to our children..

Correct... Good going..

Yes I deeply have the same feeling. I would like to add some points to your post.;
1. If someone misbehaves,; she should not be afraid of telling that to parents. 2. She should be prepared to shout in public if someone misbehaves in our absence.
3. Neighbours or friends or uncle or aunty should not close the door and play with the girl. If they do so,; she should say that she is not ready to play.; She has to leave the place immediately.
4. Should teach the girls martial arts to protect themselves.

Thank youCheni Adukia; for posting

I agree to all your points Aiswarya Balu thanks for adding.
manvi bhandariAlso I am glad your little one has picked up things , hoping the same for mine.

Agreed . Nicely written .being a parent of son n daughter I thot it's important to educate both gender is necessary in today's live


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