#navimumbaimoms #mommytakeover #shadiwadi #section :3
Yes it was a little tough working all alone in Delhi , of course I had a few relatives and friends to guide me whenever required but staying away from a protected environment was tough !!
I learned how to cook as I stayed alone .. Though always I loved to cook ( bachpan se ) but never shared the kitchen with mom as in dint spend time with her in kitchen so many things I just asked from her over phone and started cooking . Life went on and I was doing good in my job and so everyone asking what next .. ?! How about Shadi..??
Though I had many people who really wanted to marry me ( the fan following you know :-) ) I was never attracted towards or convinced for anyone .. Somehow could not trust anyone or may be thought I was not ready for it . My brother had enrolled in the matrimony site for me ( again my chota bhai is ready for his duties )...
Many proposal used to come , my parents spoke I used to meet and then nothing clicked me .. I remember my brother saying what do you actually want ?? I said I don't find that Click .... He said its not Dil to pagal hai ki koi uper se ghanti bajegi... N u know he is the one etc etc .. Ha ha .. My cutest Bro !! I normally don't or never liked any Chipkoo guy like anyone who would pursue repeatedly .. Kya hua kya hua ?? Have you decided and all .. Ufff!!!
During the Christmas vacation, me and my brother both were home and we all spoke .. He literally scolded me for not replying to one proposal .. He said such a nice profile , smart looking fellow and a scientist with Atomic energy and you dint even bother to reply ..He then asked Papa to speak and he too spoke , then meeting was arranged in Bangalore since the guy was posted there and my Brother was pursuing his Phd in IISc.
I had to fly down from Delhi and the first word this guy uttered was "So Sorry you had to come down to meet "( I thought daily asehi sorry bolta rahega but aisa Nahi hai haan lol )
That was the first time I met Dev but with lots of questions and doubts in my mind .. What kind of person , will he be genuine etc .. All kinds of typical arranged marriage Wala doubts .. Then after a few talks I remember telling him that we are not compatible with each other and that we should not marry ( like I did with many others ) :-)
But this guy went on to explain that compatibility is not liking same things or having the same thoughts and skills .. We should Compliment each other and thats more important he said :-)
Finally Haan Naa Haan Naa karke finally I agreed for the Shadi.. A monsoon Wedding on the second day of July !
One day I will never forget is , the 5 th day of our marriage Dev had arranged a Puja at one of their kul Devi Maa Tarini temple and he had touched 108 coconuts on my forehead and broken it ..I Was surprised to see that I was so important for someone ..I recalled what papa told ..Marry someone Who wants to marry You not whom You want to marry ....☺️☺️
It's been a,dozen years of our marriage now...12 years just flew by ....


Kavita Sahany

Priya Sood Khushboo Chouhan Swati Upadhyay Aditi Ahuja Richa Chowdhary Neha Mani Mishra Satarupa B Kaur Vidya Rathod Rebecca Prakash Anshu Gupta Kritz AMRITA MALLIK Mrs Chhoker Sania Bhushan Neha Agarwal Priya Dubey

Richa Chowdhary

Wow ... Amazing story.. this is love in arrange marriage.. u r truly blessed dear...

Kavita Sahany

That's so nicely put dear Richa Chowdhary ..you are a sweetheart ☺️☺️☺️

AMRITA MALLIK

Lovely! What a Combination of environmentalist with an atomic energy scientist. Ur daughter must have got some really intelligent and empathetic genes.

Neha Mani Mishra

Wow, such a lovely story.

Kavita Sahany

Thanks so much dear AMRITA MALLIK ..you had almost guessed it ☺️☺️

Kavita Sahany

Thanks so much dear Neha Mani Mishra 😊😊

Mrs. Chhoker

Touching coconut to your forehead was so awwww.... Moment 😄. Chalo let me ask you a question on your takeover, what are the changes you see in your marriage after spending so many years together?

AMRITA MALLIK

Now tell us about ur honeymoon and daughter

AMRITA MALLIK

Mrs Chhoker the faith on maa tarini in odisha is almost like vaishno devi. We can imagine how much jiju loves u.

AMRITA MALLIK

I think jiju had first fallen for u

Kavita Sahany

Ha ha supper questionMrs Chhoker ..now the coconut is for our darling daughter...lots of things change with baby ...the problem arises if we start comparing ..For me I have always been a self sufficient soul...mere sar par coconut touch karna bhul jayega koi then Maine jabardasti head thoda age karke karwalungi. .😊😊lol..
He is still that wonderful person but not that expressive ....I sometime think how people say he forgot my bday or anniversary...I dont mind reminding mera bday araha hai mera bday araha hai..ek mahine pahle se hi 😊😊 ha ha
As for me I would say I have also changed a lot...changed for better.. I have become more family oriented and how I shifted from the dynamic career woman to pure building ke bachon ki Bua is an amazing transformation!!!

Vidya Rathod

Awww Kavita two beautiful love stories in one takeover. Amazing yaar. Stay blessed. 12long years congratulations. I wish many more to come.

Kavita Sahany

AMRITA MALLIK ...ha ha honeymoon to chalta hi raha ...whole year we kept traveling from Goa to Manali..and all around ...
Baby story soon 😊😊

Kavita Sahany

Thanks so much dear Vidya Rathod ...so sweet of you ..

AMRITA MALLIK

I too do this birthday aa raha he kya gift doge? Gift maang maang ke sar kha jaayi hun.

Kavita Sahany

Ha ha seriously yaar AMRITA MALLIK ..it's much better than crying ki kuch nahi diya mujhe ..mang lo khud hi....😊😊

Aditi Ahuja

Same pinch dear Kavita Sahany this year I also completed 12 years in married life..such a beautiful love after marriage story it is and from that Coconut incidence I remember that my husband had taken a mannat that if he is able to marry me..he will go to vaishno Devi barefoot and come back..it was already a love marriage but that thing moved me ...his feet were swolen with bruises...can't explain the feeling..yes with passing years..we have more responsibilities.. priorities change... personalities change ...lots of stress....babies are born and ways and amount of expressing love changes..but it is always there if true and keeps giving a glimpse from time to time..

Kavita Sahany

That's a wonderful share dear Aditi Ahuja .speaks volumes of your love story ...stay blessed always ☺️😘😘

neha singhal

Wow wow I jus thot I was reading some love story book..; amazed yar..; n very thoughtful of ur father which my mother says "marry some who wants to marry u nt the one whom u want to marry " awesome yar..; even mine is Matrimony marriage..; ha ha

Aditi Ahuja

Thanks dear Kavita Sahany ..stay in love always and be happy..

Kavita Sahany

Thanks dear Shruti Budihal ☺️☺️

Kavita Sahany

Thanks my dear Aditi Ahuja 💐

Priya Dubey

Wow lovely life story..stay blessed

Akanksha Bajaj

Wow...Such a sweet story !

Kavita Sahany

Thanks so much dear Priya Dubey 😘

Kavita Sahany

Akanksha Bajaj(ida_tales) dear thanks so much 😘😘

Madhavi Cholera

again , very beautiful post!; stay blessed dear..

Taheseen Asif

Lovely story 😚 stay blessed

Kavita Sahany

Thanks so much dear Madhavi Cholera 😘

Kavita Sahany

Thanks my dear Taheseen Asif 😘😘

Sowmya Prithvi (sonu)

Lovely post 😊👍

Kavita Sahany

Thanks so much Sowmya Prithvi (sonu) 😇😘

Karishma Agrawal

Woww ...is session ne toh Chennai express movie ja scene yaad dila Diya..hero .stairs chadta h usko utha k...👌👌

Kavita Sahany

Ha ha so cute dear Karishma Agrawal ☺️☺️

Priya

Very interesting love story...na na karte karte...I agree it's best to marry the man who wishes to marry you more

Kavita Sahany

He he seriously Priya Sood ☺️☺️

Bhavna Anadkat

Amazing love story dear.... Stay blessed.
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Kavita Sahany

Thanks so much dearBhavna Anadkat !☺️

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