Khushboo Chouhan

SAND & BABY 🏝👶🏼
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Just while we were at the beach last week,saw a lot many parents holding back their babies from playing in the sun & sand. Sometimes, going easy is a great idea to upraise a street smart kid. Over protecting them creates a barrier in their physical & intellectual growth. Infact letting ur infant/toddler play in the sand has a lot of benefits.
A) It improves the motor skills as they use their hands n legs much more than while playing indoor games. Grabbing sand, lifting n pulling toys, filling bucket, building mountains n castles, digging holes etc is a form of fun exercise which stimulates muscle movement building strength in body.
B) Touching and  feeling the sand stimulates the sensory skills. The texture, the grip, the smell, sound of waves etc. decodes information to the brain and develops better cognizance of the 5 basic organ senses such as vision, smell, hearing,touch & taste.
C) Sand activity also promotes creative & imaginative learning. Carving and shaping figures n sculptures boosts neural (brain) activity by refining ur ideas, accelerating thinking ability & most importantly social interaction with not only family n friends but also with the unfamiliar ones on the beach.
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Over shielding ur child will only build less confident, anti social, unfriendly n aggressive attitude in them. Try not to be apprehensive about the silly things. Let ur child explore the nature n get acquainted to its essence, it will cause no harm if u take the right precautions. It’s ok to fall n get bruises, pick them up & set them to start again. Parents who cushion their babies from failure, rejection n disappointment are actually making them fragile n incompetent for the outside world. Never keep ur baby in the bubble cuz the world outside will play with it. Remember, the pearl is worthy & valued only once it is outside the shell. Do not hold back, let them go in order for them to grow !
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Working Moms!

Every mother is a working mom, right from the time she conceives till her last breath she is earnestly n endlessly thinking about her baby, is why i captioned today’s blog as ‘working mom’. There does not exist a mother whose not working, there’s just two simple contexts:
A) ‘Office going mom’ (managing her professional n personal life balance in the stipulated time)
B) ‘Full time mom’ (accessible n available for her baby round the clock)
And so,the groundless debate about whose job is more difficult or whose day is more demanding is a topic for the thick-headed people;I’m an office going mom, imparting to my daughter the same values, etiquettes n morals for a good upbringing just like any other mother, my love n affection for my child is no less just becus i don’t spend as much time with my baby as i would love to. I also don’t see a reason why is a ‘round the clock’ mommy looked down upon. It’s so disheartening to hear people pass obnoxious comments about parenting n motherhood. Although being a mother is a boon, it ain’t an easy one. It takes ur sweat n blood to raise the baby in ur womb to the baby in ur arms to a well grown human being. This is a gratitude post to all the mothers out there, u guys r amazing and doing a phenomenal job & there isn’t a better momma ur baby could have. People around u are hostile, n would always want to analyse ur parenting skills, do not dispirit ur soul, just give such malicious people a deaf ear. Motherhood is a commitment, it is being patient with the impatient little version of you. Who says it’s a thankless job, the hug ur baby gives u after that long tiring day is their way of appreciating ur mommyhood. Moreover, always be smiling n happy irrespective of the negativity around u, u don’t want to pass on the sad vibes to ur baby - do you?
Afterall, Happy Mommy = Happy Baby. Today thank ur mother for loving n raising u to be able to raise ur own baby, isn’t this a magical wheel !
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NO BARTER PLEASE !
Parents always want their kids to eat healthy & behave well. However in the process of providing them the best,do we realise we are coaching some inappropriate values just for a convenient parenting;that we r paying off to our kids for doing the right things OR making a barter to get things done? Y do we settle for their insane demands by making materialistic deals.
* If ur child is not eating the veggies u cooked, y do u have to make a SCREENTIME deal for finishing the food; y not tell them “Thats the dinner tonight,everyone eats this”, If they refuse,dont force! Give them time,trust me a hungry stomach will never throw tantrums until u give options📱❌
* If ur kiddo gives u a tough time at the hygiene regime or acts nasty to brush teeth & take a bath, y do u have to make an ICECREAM-CANDY deal for getting things of good values done. Y not educate them that “The germs may make u sick and mandates an unpleasant visit to the doctor”🍭❌
* If ur child gets rebellious to share his toys with other kids, y do u have to promise him a NEW TOY if he shares his; y not make him understand that “only if u share urs, others will share theirs & that only if they give-they get in return,as simple as that”🎮❌
*Who says kids don’t understand simple-straight talks. Infact always make sure u give them logical reasoning n not unnecessary pampering. Who says u have to talk to them in those childish babbles. Never underestimate ur baby, it’s understanding is much more than you think; it just depends on how u polish n mould them. Communicate with them with maturity,when u sound firm & sensible they will absorb the info much faster; that’s how u raise a mentally strong & confident child. After all,making deals with your children is equivalent to bribing. Never pay for making them do what’s ethical.. Ain’t we raised with an understanding that ‘Bribe’ is an immoral act. Think over it !
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HOME IS THE FIRST SCHOOL

A child’s behavioural development in the first 4 years depends on the way their parents act n portray themselves in front of their child. These initial years r completely based on observational learning. The child will see, observe, grasp & behave as shown to her. Never underestimate ur child; for u she may be a baby with a lack of understanding BUT that’s not the reality. Ur baby is constantly in the learning process n getting influenced. She is picking up on the new & smallest things she comes across n has a very well understanding than u think she does. Just because ur child’s speech is not yet developed doesn’t mean it cannot hear what u talk or see what u do; she will reciprocate the same to the world in actions if not in words. Be very mindful of the image ur portraying of urself n about the world in front of ur baby,remember she will be growing with those impressions. The most important rule is ‘Practice what u preach’. If u do not brush ur teeth at bedtime, ur child will not feel the need to do it. Do not expect ur child to latch onto good habits if u do not have one of those. If u r a well mannered human being, the same is going to reflect into ur child’s behaviour.
1. Do not use foul language in front of ur kid, ur words r constantly falling on ur baby’s ears so do not be surprised the next time she uses the same on u.
2. Do not force or yell at ur kid for not eating a healthy & balanced diet if u r not following it for urself. The child may not understand y ur telling her to eat food that is different from yours.
3.Share with others whatever u can, so the child learns to share n understands that it takes both sides to build a bridge.
4.Welcome people with a smile n greet them with humility n humbleness, this will explain ur kid to pass pleasantries at the guests & not to run away or be isolated.
*The next time u see a misbehaving child, do not judge or blame the innocent soul for being ill mannered for she is inheriting it from her home & immediate surrounding, not to forget ‘’Home is the first school’’!!
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*Daily Nutritional Dose For Infants*
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As parents we are always worried if our baby is falling short on some of the essential nutrients especially in the first year of a baby’s lifespan. Since breast milk/formula milk &other baby foods does not meet the required nutritional needs of a body until your baby has teeth & is eating a proper balanced diet. Therefore, we have to make sure that the vitals are regularly & adequately given to the baby for a healthy physical-mental development; If you have a new born,you must give the below supplements everyday to avoid any deficiency and to prevent growth restrictions;So if u r not supplementing your baby with the below, pls make the first move and ask your doctor about it without any hesitation. Right dosage will be recommended by your paediatrician depending on your baby’s well being...
1. CALCIUM - It not only helps your baby’s bones & teething process but also baby’s muscles & nerves to develop better, to stay stronger ensuring that your baby’s blood can clot properly.
2. VITAMIN D3 - It makes your child able to play around with good strength &energy; it also helps in absorbing calcium from food & deposit it in the bones. 
3. IRON - Iron deficiency in children can affect development and lead to anemia which can have adverse effects on child’s mental growth and physical development.
4. ZINC - Zinc deficiency can delay baby’s normal growth, increase risk of infections, increases risk of diarrhea & respiratory disease. Worldwide, diarrheal diseases are the leading cause of infant demises.
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