Hello friends I really wanted to write about thus topic. But, was not getting words to write it.
The first thing that I want to discuss is #parentshaming . A lot of times we have seen this and we might have also done it to others. But, is this the right thing ? No. This is not right. 
If we are in the garden and we see a parent who is fat, we sometimes end up fat shaming the parent. Why #bodyshaming . 
Sometimes, we might have seen a parent who is strict and is patiently trying to discipline the kid and the parent is named as a bad parent. Really, is that parent a bad parent ? Who are we to decide that ?
The other thing that I have observed is #kidshaming . I really noticed this when one of the parents in my daughter's online class hit the kid in front of all the other classmates. I am against hitting and also I believe that if our child is doing something wrong which is not serious then you we should talk to the kid in private. 
We should not scold our kid in front of others. No matter, how stressed we are I believe, that the kid should be seriously explained in private and then proper action should be taken. 
Even school teacher's should keep this thing in mind and instead of reprimanding the kid in front of the entire class, should call the parents privately.
These are my thoughts. Please do let me know what do you thin in the comments section below.

Body shaming still is a societal norm!

How many of you have gone through this in their lifetime? How often do we hear this from relatives,friends,colleagues or even strangers mocking behind our back, or even on social media platforms. Fact is that four out of five women hear this too often and the people who keep taunting you are close to you usually..agree?

Body-shaming can lead to a vicious cycle of judgment and criticism.  Messages from people and from each other often imply that we should want to change, that we should care about looking slimmer, smaller, and tanner.  And if we don’t, we worry that we are at risk of being the target of someone else’s body-shaming comments

Mothers do fall prey in this very naturally because of their ever changing bodies and readily tagged as ‘fat’, ‘not fit’, ‘couch potato’, ‘not like before’, ‘yummy mummy’ by our societal norms. I have had experienced this coming from very close people and I know many of you go through this..my question to you is why is it even required to be perfect?when we are all beautiful in the way we are created imperfectly perfect. Does that even matter? 

Few questions that pops in my mind are,
🔹Is it required to change our appearance to fit in this world?
🔹Even if we change our appearance..are we still perfect?
🔹Does looks and perfect body really matters..which will fade away with time?
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#healthandfitness  #healthychallenge  #bbcreatoraclub  #bbcreatorsmom  #resmomsibility  
To be honest, it was a piece of cake to loose my #postpregnancyweight  however after almost 3 years of being a mom, I am almost the same size I would have been when I was 7 months pregnant!

Its not about #bodyshaming  but its more about how #healthy  I feel from inside and I don't!

So I decided to start workout and plan my diet accordingly...but as I am #foodiemom  I actually cant resist food, my last hope was to workout and walk and sweat it all out...

Its been a month and I just have lost only 1 kg, I have been following my routines before pregnancy and my weight never exceeded 60kg, but now reaching down to even 60 kgs is Such a far cry!

What to do, I know not...

But yes it does suggest I need to work hard. Do you guys same such issues?

Is it because I am #turning30  and there are many bodily changes?

Let's talk

Article 02 : Chubby mommies, it's time to embrace our extra fats...
Staying healthy and fit should be our motto Mommies, and not being thin...
The thought of a lean body and perfect curves is what bothers every Mumma on this planet. Remembering our own self, by looking at our old pics, somewhere saddens us all...We even feel jealous sometimes looking at that thin girl we saw passing by...These all happens very naturally Mumma, we are somewhere so self critical of ourselves that we end up hating our bodies, hating ourselves and this self hate ends up causing us even more harm, both physically and mentally...
To carry a baby in your belly is to carry a poem, a piece of Art. Like every beautiful Art piece is created when the Artist sacrifices hours and hours of hardwork, perseverance, dedication and caution, our baby too is created at a cost which we mothers pay.
With motherhood comes
- Scary Stretch marks

- Some extra flabs around our 

 stomach

- Those loose clothes, that we 

 Wear to hide our extra flesh

- Flat sandals

- Inflated breasts

- A huge baby bag that we carry 

 each time we take our baby out

 for a walk, though it's of only 15 

 mins.

- A reminder calendar for those

 Crucial vaccination dates

- A weekly menu card to give our

 baby, the diet, recommended by

 the paediatrician
Oh, I am just so tired mommies, coz the list is just endless....
We end up doing so much mommies to ensure our baby is healthy, happy and joyful. We do not want to cause any discomfort to them. We end up sacrificing ourselves for the sake of our child. I wonder what makes us feel less?? How can we feel bad about ourselves or our body, when we have done such a amazing job of bringing a whole new life to this earth.

That dress in which I used to look damn hot, once upon a time, doesn't fit me anymore, so what?? Yes, I am chubbier than before and my curves got even more sexier... It's time for some new fashion for my new body, I proudly flaunt my stretch marks, coz it reminds me of how this belly was home to the baby I am playing with, right now...My stretch marks, my body and it's extra flesh, my curves, my thighs, I embrace each and everything about my body, coz this body made the greatest creation of the world..
My body made a human and that in itself, is a thing to be proud and happy of, isn't it Mommies??
So this is the product, that I got out of my system (see the pic below)
I am in love with the way I look, with some extras here and there, I feel beautiful about myself.Motherhood has just added to my beauty, I believe...
So mommies, let's embrace our beautiful bodies, let's embrace our beautiful stretch marks, let's embrace of how far we all have come in this journey of motherhood and how beautifully we all are adapting ourselves to be a good mother, each day...
Post your chubby pics, your extra pics with your little ones in the comment section below and let's shake off body shaming of mommies.... #newmomshub 
 #bodyshaming 
 #motherhood  #baby  #motherhoodjourney  #motherslove  #motherhoodisblessing  #bbcreatorspost  #bbcreatormoms  #mommywrites 
 #articles

I support this. Do you?
http://app.babychakra.com/article/2629
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