Before Detachment comes Attachement, a simple mantra to raise independent kids especially for parents who have kids between 0 to 5 years of age

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We believe independence comes when kids are kept away from parents in terms of being on play dates, or in preschool, or in daycare, in group activites, or alone. But this is not how independence kids are born. One cannot teach or force the child to be independent unless they are ready!!

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independence is a milestone that is built on foundation of security that dependency brings .. without this the foundation would be weak or superficial. No young chuld can truly be independent, there will always be some amount of dependency however it is important to ensure we offer an environment that allows dependency and independence both to strive simultaneously when they are ready !!

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By neither refusing, forcing or preventing connecting with ourselves, we encourage true independence 

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During the Lockdown , And Especially with A toddler it’ was  not easy to take care of my skin as I couldn’t go to the Salons .
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But this @mamaearth.in Neem Body Scrub has impressed me and I have started taking salon care of my skin at home by using this product .
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Do you know , Neem is an age-old traditional ingredient that purifies the skin with its anti-inflammatory properties & Tulsi soaks up excess oil, and Walnut Beads remove toxins & bacteria from the skin.

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It exfoliates gently, purifies the skin and removes dead skin cells.
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Gives glowing skin a reality with age-old ingredients such as Neem and Tulsi.
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How to Use :-

Step 1 : Take an adequate amount of body scrub and apply on a wet body.
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Step 2 : Massage gently with your hands in a circular motion all over your body.
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Step 3 : Rinse off with water and pat dry. Use at least twice a week for best results.
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This Scrub Has becomes My Favourite as it also moisturises the Skin 
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Do try out this scrub 
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How to teach responsibility to ur kids?




Responsibly cannot be divided between genders I think .its a people way of thinking .Now in this era ,there should not be any dominations that boys should play and girls should start cooking cleaning. Boys can also cook and girls can also attend sports. They should be treated equal.
; ; ; ; My boy is 6 years old and he can do the task which shows his capacity like folding their own clothes, putting the toy and taking another .Why should we have to behind them for each and everything .He is naughty and sometimes he plays dramas which does not affect me at all .His grandparents may support him but my rule is my rule which never going to broken for someone sake.if I m making him to do this all are for his future.





; ; ; ; ; ;My son likes cleaning his own vehicle ,his own table whatever he likes .I don't say u do this u do that .He likes to copy his grandfather who clean furniture chair where ever he goes whatever he does my kid follows him and ask him so many questions every Friday .In this way he also take interest in cleaning.Like in; previous post I said we play song during cleaning chores.; ;We should include our kids to cleaning purpose just like a game then this will get into habit for the future.We should not ignore them; saying that they are too small ,their hands would get dirt let them enjoy yaar .But there are some people who say they will do when they grow up😏 .





; ; I already pasted chart for studies . He himself organise his school books into his shelf.





; ; ; They can also help us in kitchen to organise fruits and vegetables .They will get to know the shape, colour.Let them watch us while cooking or; making their dishes.Kids actually loves that.Whenever I do some cooking, my kid would say mom please be careful huh; that vessel is too hot 😊. Its really melts me and that's enough to make my day good.





; ; ;He also help me while doing laundry he pick up dry clothes from washing machine but he make sure to unplug the socket from switch board.





; ; ;When you plan to go some restaurant along with your kids ask their choices which will make them happy too .Kids; observe us each and every minute from dawn to night .They want us to obey them respect them .





; ; ; ; ;While giving a task we should demonstrate them step by step.once they are doing things well change the task .We should also check whether they are done.





; ; ; ; ; We should praise them whenever they try to help us . I reward my kid with new toy or some sweets made from home or pocket money.





; ; ; Every mother has different kind of opinions and suggestions .if I left any point you; can comment on my post and also share how your kids manage; with responsibility.





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Why did you get angry and yell at your baby??!! . . 

It is not easy to be a mom and handle everything on your own. But yes we still do it all and at some point all the anger of having no one to help or scared of what would happen to your child or anxiety can all come up and burst like diwali crackers. And the victims end up being our little ones. . 

They are too small to understand what you are yelling for and it is never a good way of pointing out the mistake to your child. In fact it builds scared and distance in any relationship

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Mommies I do get that we can sometimes get angry for no reason but here is just a reminder.

🤯 That little human you yelled at does not understand anything and you are the only one who can guide them. . 🤯They act crazy sometimes just to get your attention. So that time drop things and ask them what's happening. . 🤯If you known you are going to loose your cool just Drink a glass of water so you don't yell and think about it while you gulp in the water. . 

So just chill mumma.. ❤❤❤

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An Ode ~ Little Joys of growing up !
The way he smiles,

I hope he go miles.
Never afraid to fall,

Only to stand again tall.
When he sleeps fine,

He's up with all his shine.
His laughs are contagious,

And talks are prestigious.
Not to miss his dance moves,

For any song can make him groove.
Plays in garden when outdoors,

Splashes water while indoors.
This little boy is growing,

Unstoppable while crawling.
Loves to throw and catch things,

While slowly playing in slides & swings.
Such Beautiful joys are wonder,

I am sure gonna miss this summer. .

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Love

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