Is you child strong willed?

I often use to think what i did wrong that my kids are born with hefty dose of strong will ,earlier i use to think it is genetic trait but then slowly i realised that thing i was worried about is actually a blessing just that we should keep few things in mind

1.Patience is the key whenever your kid throws tantrum just dont react ,dont shout, just say a firm no in strong voice .i know being a mother its really difficult at times but there is no other way out as your toddler wont understand your anger instead he would disobey you more and you would end up stressing yourself.

2.Be a strong leader ,once you have said no dont change it to yes, no matter how much your child cries, just try to divert their mind either by showing their favorite toy or play his /her favorite Rhymes or clap or anything that diverts his/her mind .slowly the child would start understanding that your decision is final and it wont change .

3.Gently keep reminding them that their way is not only the best way ,hust keep repeating things you want to teach,slowly and steadly your child will start grasping. one day you will see the difficult stage changing into sweet stage of understanding. 

4.Tell your self this stage is not going to last forever but it shall pass .studies have proved that strong willed children who are unreasonable in their childhood and difficult to deal with grow into a thoughtful and self motivated teenager.
So mommies take a deep breath and keep doing the needful in your own way without stressing out and losing patience ..there is no term as perfect mother but every mother is perfect in her own way.
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Dont ignore when new born cries:

My son use to cry a lot ,when he cried before giving feed we use to think it is because of hunger but then he use to cry more after taking feed ,i had sleepless nights because my son was not sleeping even for two hours continuously he use to cry in sleep too .

I consulted my pediatrician ,he got stool test done ,after the test we came to know that my son is lactose intolerant by birth .Now this was something which i wasn't aware of ,was thinking how can i keep my some days old child without milk ..as he was unable to digest even breast feed.

My pediatrician gave a medicine few drops of which i had to mix in my feed and give it to my son ten minutes before feeding him .it was so difficult to wait for those ten minutes to get over as my child use to get restless after having that medicine to take feed ,it was so heartwrenching to see him waiting for feed,but couldnt help.

He was given lactose free formula nilk to be fed as only breast feed cannot

 be given to him all time it would cause stomach ache as it wasnt getting digested easily.

I breast fed him till 8 months so that he builds immunity (mothersfeed is best for building immunity).

So i never ignore a crying baby thinking he is hungry or wet but double check the cause and pattern of crying.#samia #mommytakesover  #BBcreatorsclub #newbaby#newmommie

My journey of motherhood.

Every iota of life changes when you become a mother .From blow dried hairs to messy bun ,from ironed dreses to food stained clothes,from a perfect figure to a plum body. 

A mother welcomes all changes in her life with her child .
i was unable to concieve for three years of my marriage ,i know that wasnt very long time period to worry about but i was expecting people of my own family to say that to me instead everyone was asking me when am i planning a baby and i shouldn't delay etc etc etc ..so a fear was there in my mind

I cried alot when i saw those two blue lines on the pregnancy test strip i double checked it that two means pregnant!!!

Little did i know that after those nine months i will start my most exhausting, lifechanging,heartwrenching but indescribably rewarding journey of my life 
My heart was pounding very heavily when i entered operation theatre for c section as my pregnancy was really a complicated one ,i knew that in just few minutes i will be a mother ,but didnot know that will i be there in this world to take care of my child or not but Almighty God has always been kind to me ..every thing went well me and my daughter both got a life and my beautiful journey of motherhood started..My daughter was underweight so she was in incubation for three days ..she was given in my room after three whole days, those three days where the longest time period in my life .i was counting every minute every second..

I cried when i held her first time in my arms ,i cried with fear ,i cried with happiness ,i cried with worry ,all mixed feelings were crossing my heart and mind .i promised my little one to take care of her in every possible way i can .

I know iam not the only one who thought this way infact every mother think alike on this beautiful journey of motherhood .so i respect all mothers whether a working mom or stay at home mom ,a mother who chose to go through all labour pains and gives birth to a baby or a mother who goes through c section..every mother is doing and giving her best for her child wholeheartedly. 
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My Passion Towards Photography and Creativeness📸📷

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I love photography the most. I captured each and every milestone of my baby(monthly birthdays, milestones, festivals, some creative captures etc..)

When our Eeshaan turned 1️⃣, we had a Little Krishna themed birthday party for him. 

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I attached few pics of his milestones, monthly birthday pictures, 1st birthday pictures... All of them are totally done with my ideas, passion for photography. U can check chalkboard poster, a year full of firsts, theme decoration, boards etc...

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If any of you are interested, you can ping me personally for different photoshoot ideas, DIY, decorations, making of posters, invitation cards, theme selection... 

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Finally signing off for the day with these beautiful pictures.📸📷

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Thanks for sparing your valuable time, to check my posts/feed/hashtags #eeshaanmom  #eeshaanlife  #learnwithkannayya  

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Pregnancy, Baby Shower 🤰and finally Delivery Day(Birth of EESHAAN)👶

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Our Doctor confirmed that 'We Are Pregnant' on OCTOBER 22, 2017. We are very happy on hearing that super good news and headed back to home. We called our parents and shared that happy news with them, they shared with few of our very close relatives and friends. 

We haven't told about this with our colleagues as we wanted to share it after 3rd month. But we are unable to hide this news for long time as my baby bump is too high😂🤰

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3rd Month: Our families have a small ritual to do in this month where my parents need to come to my place, offer chalimidi to me(mix of rice flour and jaggery) and take me along with them to stay for 3 days with them. 

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Months passed away with lots of tests, ultrasound scan etc and I went to my work place till the end of 7th month, after went to my mom's place to delivery. And the only support I had throughout my pregnancy was my hubby dearest.

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I had my Baby Shower on May 25, 2018(exactly a month before my due date)in presence of family, relatives and friends..

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I used to always think how my baby looks, like me or my hubby and was very excited to see the baby for the first time(June 19, 2018), and yeah the happiness we all felt was countless.
It's a Boy and we named him as EESHAAN DESAI.

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From the moment he is born, everything completely changed.,earlier it was Me and We and now it's only Him...

Restless days and sleepless nights are all worth. A new phase of life filled with emotions, sacrifices, pain, thoughts, doubts has been started from then...Now he is 1.4 years old and many exciting milestones yet to experience. 

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Stay tuned and meanwhile keep following my hashtags #eeshaanmom  #eeshaanlife  to get more updates today and always 😊

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