1Always a work in progress!! According to me there are four phases of marriage:-
** honeymoon period💑
** life takes over🧟♀️
** baby takes over👼
** the end!!!🚫 Funny i know, but that seems to be what is going on in life nowadays. We don’t intend to, but it does happen. We lose the connection, we start living two different lives, our enthusiasm is lost somewhere in all the daily responsibilities and routine. And with the baby the whole dynamics of our relationship changes. The romantic mornings turns into relay race between kids, maids, chores.
Our afternoons are occupied by playtime, naptime ,snacktime and potty time for your little ones.
The evenings mostly spent in kitchens making lots of different options in a hope that your little one will eat something out of all this varieties you made.
Even the concept of date night becomes so tiresome. And you rather end up sleeping in bed with your little one while making them sleep If you can connect with any of the thoughts above, it’s time to stop all this take control and work; on your relationship. Take one step and I am sure your husband will meet you halfway and hold your hand because that’s what this is a JOURNEY we are always a work in progress.we are building our life together but we can’t just stop working and giving time and importance to the most important relationship in our lives. Remember he is the one who is going to be there with you, for you at the end of all this.; Give time to each other, no date nights, no movie dates or lunch dates nothing fancy nothing expensive. Just time for hugs, time to talk and connect, time to hear each other and just be there for eachother.; Just some basics Till then reconnect
Himali Joshi
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20 Dec 2019