I agree with <u>dhara</u>

<font color ="#3b5998"><b> @63729dda98dafd001537b360 </b></font><font color ="#3b5998"><b></b></font> no one can take mother's place....be motivated girl... it's phase which comes in women's life when you stay with elders... we can't expect ppl to change unless we are able to change ourselves.... believe in yourself and give love to both.... hatred cannot kill hatred but love can...I know saying is different than practicality applying it but trust me when you do it would be peaceful for everyone.... these small things lead to bigger issues and elders are just like kids they sometime don't understand... treat both equally...it will all be ok... personal experience....I give more love to ppl when get caught in such situations.... good luck and lots of love &#128536;

well, if I were in your place. I will definitely tell&nbsp; mother in law to stop this immediately as I am the mother now and I would not tolerate such talks as this will definitely affect the relation between me and my child. This is my way of handling the situation as I am outspoken and I never hide my emotions especially anger. Now it depends on you how you tackel the situation. but this is your child, you gave birth, you suffered from pain and you are the one who bring this beautiful flower to theirs life. so, you have every right to be angry and to be heard.

Ya am doing my best to keep that type talks away..but i don't know why they don't understand all babies will not be same as her baby(i mean my hubby and my brother in laws )they were too chubby in their childhood..but it's common na baby's will look like their parents

hey dear..&nbsp; stay positive..&nbsp; love ur baby so much that ther is never a space for hatred..&nbsp; and even if she ask u someday than u can divert her mind by saying that grandma is kidding with you..&nbsp; its in our hands na dear..&nbsp; dont worry be happy and stay positive with ur baby..&nbsp; :)