We start blaming situations that why this happened to me?
Do I deserve it ? Why am I; being blamed ? Why no one understands me ? Why does this person have a problem with me only? We definitely have such questions coming to our minds at some point .
All we need to understand during this time ,is that; evrything doesnt need an answer phases come and go so do situations change time to time.
Instead learn to be glad and thankful for what you have . Starting this thanks giving maintain a gratitude journal and make sure to thank each one whom you encounter daily.
Don't have an exciting job? Be glad atleast you have one; Can't find a job ? Be glad other aspects of life are being fulfilled. You have shelter you can afford food , some people don't even have that .
If one area of life falls apart doesn't mean it's the end of world. Life gives us challenges only to make us reach our maximum potential.
The higher the challenge the chances of reaching maximum potential is even higher.
Have a boy friend / girlfriend - husband / wife still not happy?; As you suddenly feel; they are not the one you chose; and things start going haywire. You need to understand you both are together for a reason , acknowledge the fact that you have come in this life together to close /; heal the past wounds Or the wound which you don't like to touch .
Understand that you both are in this life time; a part of each others life to raise each other from the current scenario and to grow as a human. But still we continue cribbing to have such a partner, it's normal to think this way, we are humans and meant to think in this manner. There are also relations which fall apart and that too is fine as this was the time frame you both had with each other to close and heal the wounds and come to peace when you have to leave them.
The day we understand whatever is coming towards us was once upon a time also sent by us , we will deal with things differently and understand the true concept of karma.
Life is a live stage play the best and the best you shall get back.
Make a positive distinct mark in each one's life as much as you can. @Neha Agarwal