am v v thankful to u all ..if not babychakra I don't know where I wouldaa vent out..all ur advises sooth me...I ve decided once hubby returns I'm gonna discuss this wt him....once again heartily thanks to u <u>all</u>

hi <font color ="#3b5998"><b> @6372d82a573f5c0015bc4022 </b></font> first of all... a big big big healing hugs for u... I totally hear u dear... I can understand ur situation now... most of the women facing such a situation.. even my SIL facing this issue every now nd then.. she couldn't break it as she brought up like this... really I feel sad when hearing Elder r behaving like childish.. but keeping on telling them today's lifestyle, generation gap issues may works well I hope.. keep on telling that u have ur own rights... Rimsha u know what... Islam has given so much independence on women but unfortunately really unfortunately... Muslims don't follow it much when coming to womens freedom... pls read about what Islam really says about women and follow it... that's the reason why I became this much powerful.. really nobody can interfere my thoughts nd my deeds... in my family... even older people have their own belief... but my hubby explained a lot , not arguing to elders... Elder are really don't know the fact much... it's ur hubby s full responsibility to ur happiness... he can't even escape from it... nd ask him don't take it as a pressure.. but it's his duties... if he is interested towards Islam.. remind him hw Islam wanted to treat a woman... hope u will get relief soon... Insha Allah...

<font color ="#3b5998"><b> @6372d82a573f5c0015bc4022 </b></font> a big hug to u dear...hope u are feeling much better after venting out. I love the advice given by Aditi, Asha, Sumira, Priya n sheeba..try to talk to ur husband, he will understand u, don't worry, just start working on ur independence from now on. &#128536;

<font color ="#3b5998"><b> @63729cb62338f60015eaef4c </b></font><font color ="#3b5998"><b></b></font><font color ="#3b5998"><b></b></font> loved that "rock" thing... would like to try that out next time&#9786;.... rimsha dear, get that joke going! since hubby understands you, tell your hubby you need that walk in the park! do not nag, just keep reminding, and tell him what you mentioned in this post - that spending a day or two with your parents does wonders for you and that it will save him his mobile phone too &#128512;... ofcourse, there is only so much that you can bear before losing your temper. there is so much frustration built up inside you. and if its just your inhibition preventing you from stepping out alone, then do take that first step, believe me - its very liberating.&nbsp; love and hugs dear &#128536;

hey rimsha! i m glad u were able to take out ur bhadaas! big hugs! aditi, priya, sumira have already given u excellent advice! pls meet ur parents regularly if that makes u happy. me time, parents time is very imp. also if ur hubby cant accompany u to the park - pls make friends with someone who has a toddler and go to the park everyday - its imp for both u &amp; ur childoo. spend time with positive people it helps, trust me. we met amazing people at the park and are still friends with them after 9 yrs!!! tc. much love to u