Confused and Shocked......
Deae friends from a week a go is was not active on baby chakra for some reason. Actually i was not in proper state of mind.
The story is that from the time i have delivered my mom has completely changed, I mean what I was for her before marriage, the scene is completely different now. As of their are many points:-
1) My husband is working out of country so after delivery I shifted to my birth place with my parents, but their also a twist guys that I have not shifted at my home, but staying in another house near my home, because in my home my mothers so called loveable pets(dogs) are staying and that to furious ones. So for baby safety we are staying near by. Because my mother is not leaving them on any cost. I know pets is not great big deal. But the dogs all around in the house, on the bed, sofa etc etc.
Now the question in your mind must be arising is that in this way whats troubling me?
2) my father is staying with and takimg care of me amd my son
3) from the time i have delivered my mother is after me and my father, she is pressuring my father that dont take care of me and my baby. Let her husband do this work.
4) i have delivered via c section and this stage in my life i needed her the most. But she behaved very badly and hurting. At the time of operatiom she switched of the phone. And from the time she is behaving like I am her enemy.
My father and mom have fights on me daily. My mom is insisting to leave me at my situation alone and offends him. My father is getting depress day by day. In every family a birth of baby is celebrated. But in my case I have become burden for every one.
When i was in my full energetic body my mom used to take care of me fondle me alot. But now she is( tum jano and tumhara kam jano) . She also delivered two kids via c section, must have experienced what are the problems a lady deals with in this time. She says sometimes u had a kid now your life is over and compares with another girls who are on the top gear of their career...
Now my question to all here my friends is, Am i wrong, does now i am not able to do the works which i used ti do usually so m not worth. Am i a material for my mother?

Till then i was capable she was happy with me, now i am dependent so she cut of all the relation with me and is doing so. Guys i am really getting depressed nowdays. I now this is the phase it will go. But i need a elder person advise for baby care.

I thank to god that least he has given me a supportive dad, who is their with me now.

Sometimes i think to move abroad to my hubby, but baby is still young to go to colder region. Or sometimes i think to call ny husband india.
I am in real fix guys... please help. This volcano of thoughts are getting bruised day by day into me. I want to be a happy mother. But the arguments ,fights, selfishness are grwoing day by day
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