May be he thinks that you don't want his parents to be around. Make that clear and explain to him, See you are really good you are thinking about 2 old people and you are right as well but why are you taking this tension? Speak with your mil and ask her to decide according to her convenience. you don't interfere let them only handle. 

Hi Anon, As advised by BabyChakra expert Sheena Kalia, Psychologist and Psychotherapist. Dear Mom to be, I can only imagine your dilemma. Firstly give yourself a pat on the back for being so thoughtful about each family member. I understand your heart is in the right place. I'm wondering if you and your husband could come to a half way point and explain all your concerns to him. You said you are in your 8th month. Talk to him and ask him to delay their coming by 15 days that way you would have bought some more time to ensure your grandparent in laws too are not inconvenienced and neither your in-laws. If talking to your husband doesn't help. Try involving your gynaecologist and when you go for your appointment make sure your husband goes with you for your check up so your husband too gets assurance that you and the baby are doing well and following the due date calendar.He too seems worried and is looking out to ensure you get the care you need. I understand it can make you irritable but just try explaining in a calmer way or bring in another family member to intervene and help out.

dnt take stress dear.<br> just think "jo hoga aachy k lie hoga" if ur grand inlaws come dnt worry they will guide u and for ur infant .so chill and if not some other way will come out.<br> just remember when u dnt find any way to "haalaat ko haalat per chod do".

Hi Anon. The issue needs more talk n less fight. Sit and reason. The possibilities need to be discussed. The pro and con of each. Highlight what the risks are very calmly. If its just for some time try to see if they can have someone come over to your in laws place to take care of grand in laws