Guys I'm getting pissed bcoz of my hubby's ignorant behaviour towards his responsibulities towards his child, wife, married life and home. He is 24*7; busy in his own world of spirituality. Maine unhe bhot samjhaya ki I need his help in house chores nd in looking after our baby nd he have started doing 1 or 2 things which I appreciate from the botton of my heart but he still don't take it as his responsibilty but do those 1 or 2 chores thinking that it's not his work but he is doing bcoz I've yelled on him to help me out....
This problem has bcom a part of daily life now. Subah he did the dish wash nd made tea I felt so relieved. Whole day I didn't feel much work load just bcoz of these 2 small helps from his end but around 10 I was having dinner nd baby was feeling hungry so I asked him to make cerelac for the baby but he eloped from there saying "aaj nhi aaj nhi main kl kr dunga" bcoz of his this attitude I hd to finish my dinner in hurry nd then made cerelac then fed her then she pooped so changed the diaper then gave massage to her then made a bed rail bcoz baby was playing all around the bed then put her to sleep by taking her into my arms nd I've very bd pin in my right wrist from last 15 dus or so jiki wajah se mujhe ghr k chhote2 kaam krne b dikkt ho rhi hai. God me baby ko sulte2 mera hath jaise toot hi gya tha I swear. Oh god! But he was not there. I felt so exhausted bcoz of his one wrong deed in the end of the day. Huh!!!
Baar2 mn me khayal aata h ki bhag jaun yahan se kahin. Even I've told this thing to him that I'm still here just bcoz of our baby otherwise main bhot pehle hi yahan se chli gai hoti.
Pooja Singh
01 Feb 2018
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Yogini Kandre
I agree with Amreen and Neha, you should keep maid for other household chores, like cleaning and mopping etc, so you get some time to rest, and talk to your husband frankly about what you feel,; take <u>care</u>
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02 Feb 2018
Anonymous
Can't get maid here. I need to talk to him once again abt this <u>matter</u>
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02 Feb 2018
Neha Vij
Hi Anon
Pls do not stress yourself first. It will make things worst. Is it possible to keep a part time maid/help to assist you till the time baby is so small. Coz we are humans and can't handle everything. Over burdening yourself will only lead to frustration that you will keep on releasing on your hubby and child. My suggestion is to go for a helping hand or discuss the issue with your husband calmly to reach a proper solution
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01 Feb 2018
Anonymous
I'm thinking d same ameen let's see when I get the chance to go there....
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01 Feb 2018
Am Zam
Hugs to you dear! Good u vent it out here.. plz don't be pissed n don't frustrate urself..if possible keep a maid for cleaning or other things so that u can rest at least from these work.; <br>
N men are like that only..poking him will only irritate u.. make him understand pyarse thatu both need him..y don't you go at ur mom's place for some days..juz a small change from routine work will be relaxing. Tc
Yogini Kandre
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02 Feb 2018