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Hi everyone!

I'm deeply hurt nd disturbed by my parents once again. I've come to my mom place nd my school bestiewas alone at hrr home today. She told me that she is feeling left alone on this occassion. So i; went to her home today around 11am nd told my patents that ill b back by 6pm.

But in d eve no ola no uber was available all bookings were getting cancelled by theor own. Nd it was 7pm or more by then. So i called at home nd told my parents that this is the scene so i will come in the morning now.

Bsss iske baad zindgi bhar se jo drame pele hue the in logon meri shadi se pehle b...wahi drama fir create kr diya inhone. We dont bave 4 wheeler nd i have my baby with me so i am not comfortable in travelling by 2 wheeler with my baby thats why i said that I'll come tomorrow in d morning. But they didnt listened to me at all nd created a huge kiosk. My husband dont have any issue me staying there tonight but my parents just crossed their limit in troubling me. My father dont even know how to talk to anybody. Itni gandi tarah se baat kr rhe the mujhe dat i cant even tell u. Huhhh!!

Ab isme meri kya galti h koi mujhe bta skta h? Kya main itni b capable nhi hu ki itna b decision le skun ki main ek raat apni frnd k yahan ruk jaun(jise wo jante b hain uska ghar b dekha h mere parents ne). But they deliberately sent my younger brother on his 2 wheeler to fetch me home. Omg! I cant take it; ki is zamane me b literate parents nd daughter me itni understanding nhi h maturity nhi apas me ki....huh what to say...

What wud happen to this country...when wud peopke grow up.

Pls tell me kya meri galati h isme koi? Ya mere parents galat hain? Aapka kya opinion h

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Yaar ye kaisi worry h yaar.; Mtlb main married hu kuch dino k liye mayke aai hu ek din ghum lungi to kya badnami ho jayegi yaar inki samaj me? We all go to see our frnds when we vist our mayka. <br> Chlo tmsb kuch maaf. But wo salike se apna concern bta skte the na ki hme ye prblm h. And unhe ye nhi smjh aa rha ki main itni chhoti baby ko bije me itni raat ko lekr aaungi dikkat ho skti h. Mujhe sirf baby ko bike me le jane se orblm thi thats y said ki main kl aungi ab. I dont understand ki kis safety ki baat hai yhan pr. Main apni female frnd k ghar thi unke pas uska no. b hai sb kuch h fir b ese behave kiya jaise inhe pta hi nhi h ki main kis jagah pr <u>hu</u>

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Kavita Sahany

Hey normally Sab apne jagah theek hote Hain buss situation hi galat hota hai..<br> They are worried and concerned so they did it ..but parents ki sari Galti maaf coz it's only because of them that we r here today .. they grow old and become like kids again ..<br> I appreciate your husband for being understanding here .; So you have to understand sabko Sab kuch nahi milta .. <br> Anyways go back home if your brother is already there . Holi maai; anyways evenings are not safe . So they might be worried . Take care ..

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pooja

It's not about right or wrong it's about perspective, they are conditioned in that way and you or I can't change it overnight. They have their concerns you are married but they are still your parents they trust you but what about others and moreover they must be thinking that what your in laws will feel; may be they want ki koi apko kahi bhi point na kare and they want your safety otherwise why they will bother to send your brother. You are also correct but they love you that's y they are overprotactining you especially in today's environment and Indian mindset, here ppl will never take a second to blame you irrelivently. So plz don't loose your cool and try to understand them &#129303;

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