Hello All,
I was expecting pregnancy to be a beautiful journey and I was with high hope that my family would shower me with immense love and care. But the reality is totally different. I love talking about my baby when he moves and anything that I feel during this period but nobody in my family seems to be as excited as I am. Sometimes my sisters don’t talk to me for weeks because I might have spoken rude to them when I was having a bad mood swing in pregnancy. They don’t even care about my cravings or anything. No matter what I crave for I cook it by myself. I don’t know how to express my feelings but I really feel very depressed with all this behaviour because this was least expected out of them. And the worst part is my husband works for Navy so he isn’t around facing all this alone is so humiliating because it’s my own family. Please help before all this impacts My health and my baby’s health. This emotional trauma is so bad.
I was expecting pregnancy to be a beautiful journey and I was with high hope that my family would shower me with immense love and care. But the reality is totally different. I love talking about my baby when he moves and anything that I feel during this period but nobody in my family seems to be as excited as I am. Sometimes my sisters don’t talk to me for weeks because I might have spoken rude to them when I was having a bad mood swing in pregnancy. They don’t even care about my cravings or anything. No matter what I crave for I cook it by myself. I don’t know how to express my feelings but I really feel very depressed with all this behaviour because this was least expected out of them. And the worst part is my husband works for Navy so he isn’t around facing all this alone is so humiliating because it’s my own family. Please help before all this impacts My health and my baby’s health. This emotional trauma is so bad.
Big tight hugs to you, we get little sensitive during our pregnancy due to some harmone changes. Hope things get better at home, dont argue on anything and please continue to share your feelings with us often.
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Thank you so much everyone❤️
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Happens with all of us dear .. a little more expectations during this period.. blame it on hormones.. don't think about small things... Don't expect much.. listen to music .. read good books.. be happy with whatever you have n little joys of life.. I know it's difficult but will help you. Whenever you are upset feel free to talk to us. Take care.
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Hi darling, i can see myself in what you have penned down. I was the same when i was pregnant. I know how bad it feels. There was no single day I didn’t cry. I even thought iam the only one who’s excited to welcome the baby. But it’s not the reality dear. It’s all hormones game. It’s even worser after delivery. Post partum depression is something really horrible. What i can tell you from my experience is understand it’s all hormonal changes and there’s nothing to worry. Think about your baby and be happy. It’s not a rare issue, majority of the pregnant woman is facing this phase. We’re all with you. When you feel down talk to a lady who’s having a baby, she may understand you. Never stress out. Always with you dear. Feel free to tag me any day any time. Happy pregnancy 🤰
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Rashi Shukla
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03 Jun 2020