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Hello friends, my baby doesn't want to leave me for a second; whenever I do so he starts crying like hell..what should I do to get rid of this habit
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Roopashree Siddireddy

It depends.. my doctor always use to tell me.. be firm in your decision regarding kid. If you say no..stick to it. Easy thing is.. make him sleep. And when baby is sleeping, then you can do work Fatafat. My friends all do like this. My problem was... I was a paranoid mom and too much concerned about baby. This made me stick to her all the time. And also.. baby was used to my warmth and nearness. So..the moment it left. She was crying. Many said.. let baby cry. Talk in between and work. Hard time...but have to make them used to. Once baby starts sitting.. you can make baby sit and do work.

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ruchi Srivastava

<font color ="#3b5998"><b> @629847e308f7c30014119c82 </b></font> and yes Im already doing exactly what you suggested.. he loves talking but I don't know when he will understand that I'm always available for him.

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ruchi Srivastava

<font color ="#3b5998"><b> @629847e308f7c30014119c82 </b></font> for the Same reason I'm worried. He wants to see me all the time ..whenever I'm in front of him doing my work he is ok playing goon gaan himself but as soon I go outside room thinking that he is busy Wil not notice me he starts crying immediately and very loudly like when he cries during vaccination. He is doing so from one week. Before that I left him with a strange person for him for 2-3 hrs during Diwali..that person made all effort to make baby happy but he was only crying nd crying.. mujhe lgta h wo incident; uske mind me fix ho gya h..itne chotte; baby ko unsafe; feel krana bhi sahi; nhi; lgta aur koi I bhi nhi ki use socialise kr <u>saku</u>

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Roopashree Siddireddy

You need to leave and let the baby cry..not an issue. Baby should understand that mom has to work. Let baby in cradle or stroller and work while you are talking. Once baby is used to you...then it won't allow you to do anything. See my girl case.. even at night, if I need to go to bathroom...I need to tell her and after that she will be crying till I return. Life will be hell , if kids are attached too much. Keep some toys and keep talking. Once you come running. .whenever baby cries.. baby will make sure you are next to baby by crying

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ruchi Srivastava

Abhi to thk I but it wll; create a big trouble; for me in future

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