i dont knw whether i ve to post it or not but im feeling very much depressed..
I got an emergency call from my hospital by 11.30PM yesterday, there was an emergency labour..
Patient was already a mother of two girls was a pregnant again.she was in labour..
I asked her why she wanted more kids when she already had two and was obviously from a poor family. She said,
"Those two kids were girls and my in laws and husband wanted a boy". It was too late for me to advice anything to her. I was definitely angry about her statement.
Few minutes later,she delivered babygirl. It is a custom in our hospital to show the baby to mother immediately after delivery so that she identifies the sex of the baby. I was obviously the first person to see the baby as i delivered them. "DAMN CUTE"😍.
I showed her tht cute baby.trust me guyz,I could only see tears rolling down her eyes,which was definitely not of happiness. I couldn't even sense a PINCH of it !!
It doesn't end here. a bigger shocker to me was this.
I told her attenders that the baby can be seen. An old lady (probably her mother in law) asked me:
"girl or boy?"
I said: "Pari aayi he☺" (Angel)
Next second, she turned back and walked away,without even bothering to see that cute baby !!
and her stupid husband started taunting his wife and daughters, who r actually not responsible for this..
But for all this to be achieved in the best way, SHOULDN'T WOMEN RESPECT WOMEN FIRST ?! Isn't she the ONLY PERSON who can be a MOTHER to her child, WIFE to her husband and DAUGHTER, to both her parents and in laws?? can any "MALE" be all these? SHE should definitely feel PROUD about herself and other women! SHE has NO RIGHT to feel INFERIOR !!
These incidences are too common in our society.TRUST ME ! From the POOR to the RICH, from illiterate to a well educated family, it's prevailing everywhere. in every religion,every caste,every street,every village and every city in one or the other way . From FEMALE INFANTICIDE to DOMESTIC VIOLENCE , SERIOUSLY WOMEN SHOULD FIGHT BACK..
i ve seen many cases lyk this but today im feeling low bcz of those three lil gals..
God bless them.......
26 Mar 2017
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NUSRAT JAHAN
Bitter truth of our society.... God bless those 3 angels... N may God giv them strength to stand out in society n lead a successful <u>life</u>
society plays a major roll in making a mother feel proud or inferior mother. lets not do it atleast from our ends. if someone has only girl child lets give them a positive vibe instead <u>of</u> showing our condolence. huh....!
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06 Apr 2017
Pooja Singh
at the time of delivery we look for sisters, sister in law, mother , mother in law, frnd to look after the baby and ourselves but dont want to deliver a baby girl. hahaha very selfish and foolish.
NUSRAT JAHAN
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17 May 2018