Hello Mommies
Good evening everyone hopes all of your weekends going smoothly.
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My name is Anuradha. I am from the middle-class family I guess below that also. I have lived my childhood in a joint family with my cousins..
Though happiness didn't last long my father passed away when I was writing my annual exam. At that time I was very young to know the meaning of life & death. My Mom said your father has gone on a long journey who will ask God and return back to the home. I believed wait and when I realised the meaning of death I was studying 4th standard. I became mature. My mom was told to manage your family separately; we came out of the joint family she took separate house she had an amount we bought our own house, but I never thought how she had spent every day & night in this cruel society.
When I asked Mom I was very hungry she took a part-time job, and earn some money we lasted it for a month. Gradually she made up her courage she was saving for her studies and also for our future, but I need to say one thing in these struggles she never thought that her children need not be educated; after we came out of the joint family with her few savings I joined another CBSE school. And another one more I need to Mention is when my father passed away my sister was 8months old. As a woman she faced a lot of humility, discourage everything throughout her life but still, she never gave upon us. There are few people who said to my mom leave the children in the orphanage you carry on with life, but my mom said I survived because of them I can't leave them unless am dead. During the weekend unused to take charge of the house clean etc, she never forgets to buy us birthday dress and other occasion dress. I never saw her eating in the day time she almost skipped every day to eat lunch and dinner. Still, she fed us, gave shelter & educated us. I still remember going on tour with some amount of savings we do. When I realised when I was studying college I said to my mom how did you manage both of us by taking care, food everything; she just smiled and said you both gave strength to work hard in my life 😘. She also pursued Tamil Literature & Also a professional Astrologer. Her Aim was kinda cool is was my marriage. I asked what how come you can ask me to marry right after I finish college. Even sometimes I fought with her badly. That was a sudden break of my life. Even though she had savings my relatives said we can't help with money. She just boldly just I came inviting you for my daughter marriage not to ask any help. She just did it. I was literally shocked the way she did each every work was by herself. Even the catering work she arranged by herself bought all the things need to cooked she bought good works and made them too. My mom friends, we're supportive through the journey and still be. My mom's surroundings we super shocked that😱how come a single done everything without any help; even my inlaws. My father in law will say proudly that My mom is Iron lady how come she is like this 🤠. After when I became mom sometimes at my young age I couldn't able to manage my stress level and my baby though we got to know recently postpartum depression; I asked her how did you manage us in that depression stage
She just smiled said because nothing could stop if we going to sad, depress or crying life has to move on to the next stage that happened because you both were my life motive 💝🙌. There are many things I have learnt from my mom how to manage alone without depending, even if you depressed how to overcome without depending on others. She is my life dictionary 🙌💖.
I don't know if I am in her place I wouldn't have survived for a half-day. I attached my baby pic in this frame for my mom pic because my mom loves my baby to the core whenever she sees my baby she says that your baby reminds me the value of my life how I raised you both 😘🙌💝.
These are incidents of my life changed in the whole night. I never thought of missing my dad because my mom stood in that place filled with the whole heart 💝. She is my Mom& guru.
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