Hi everyone.. i have been busy past one week with some family matters and now i can see i have missed so many posts...
So as i mention, i was busy, i would really like to share this incidence with you all!!!
One of our family friends got dengue last week. So he is in hospital for almost a week now. His wife was looking after everything. By everything means, a husband who is in hospital, a father who is going through a chemotherapy for cancer, and a mother with some back problem. So in this hush hush she got sick n got admitted to another hospital for migraine and extreme dehydration.... and the hospital was not the same where her husband was..its 30 km away from home.
ohh..sorry... did i mention one more thing??
They have a son who is 10 months old now who is suffering from congestion so bad that he cant breath at night property!!!!! I cant imagine myself in this situation, not even close to it... for the worst of my enemies also i cant wish this thing to happen..
on day 1, he was so cranky after not finding his parents for so long. Nobody was able to handle him. So i brought him to my home bcz me n my son are really fond of him... he played, had food, also he took a nap near me after having food. BUT as the day was passing his situation was getting worse. He was constantly crying, searching...missing something... He had his food, we gave outside milk also but he wasnt taking it...he was somehow full...but still he was missing his mother so bad. After crying a lot he got tired n slept off... but he got up at middle of the night n it happened all over again...
nobody including him could sleep through the night.. some how we managed to take him to his mother ...he had BF , slept off n on day2 he was fine...
BUT when the second night came, we were, till 1 am, trying really hard to put him to sleep. Nothing worked!!!
Finally, at 2 am we decided to request the hospital management to give us a permission to take the child to his mother but nothing worked there also ..they refused for obvious reason...
we called his mother.... ofcourse she was crying like hell after hearing her son crying on top of his voice... at last i couldn't reaist myself from talking to her... i literally snatched phone from her mother n asked her if she wants me to BF him...bvz thats what i could think on that point of timw...as a mother i have this thing or u can say a power to feed a baby to calm him down or to fulfill his hunger ques....
After asking her i came to know that she wanted the same thing but was hesitating to ask...
Finally we decided that i will feed him and so i did... You wont believe he didn't even take the milk..in 2 3 minutes he had already slept off!!!!
At that moment i dont know what happen but i started crying... i did not feel this thing even with my own child before... i was so overwhelmed by this all episode.... but when in the middle of the night both, him n my son got up at same time...it got a bit difficult... as my son wanted me to face towards him n he wanted to have a feed.... i coudnt help the situation on my own for so long... we were struggling to put them both to sleep... finaly i thought i should try this thing for 1 time... i took my son outside, put him on my lap, told him whole scenario, and i told him that i am your mother and i love you sooo much. but right now he needs me more than you do... i am there near you only but let me take him also... i was expecting as my son is only 16 months old but miraculously he understoo... he went to his father and slept near him. After that i went to the baby, fed him and we both slept off!!!!
During all these stunts that we were doing i was somewhere inside my heart remembering all those mother who has TWINS!!!!! I was so exausted in the morning and first thing i did was, i decided to write a post on this here and to dedicate to all the twin's mom out there!!!!
I dont know i did right or wrong but the experience was so satisfying, n overwhelming i cant explain!!
Hats off to you ladies!!!
Mother have many superpowers, Twin mothers have infinity!!!
@Priya Sood@asha chaudhry@Neha Sharma@Sumira Bhatia Girls, plz tag ALL the twin moms.. i know only @Dhara
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07 Jul 2017
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Shruti Giri
hey..thank you all for your appreciation...<font color ="#3b5998"><b> @6106b74d7880d6001a3de79b </b></font> <b><font color ="#3b5998"> @63729b593f31520016a69b80 </font></b> <font color ="#3b5998"><b> @616d0591b34e550013eb9a72 </b></font> i really wanna thank u guys for this platform to share such stories..bcz u knw this is a kind of a situation where u will be judge for one or the other thing... <br>
i was too hesitating to sharr this thing with anyone...but babychakra came to my rescue cz i knew noone will jugde me here👍
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07 Jul 2017
Ellora Mohanty
Well done, seriously no one would take this kind of steps. Really u r amazing.
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07 Jul 2017
Aradhana Sharma
shruti, motherhood is so miraculous and you are not just a super mom but a super great friend one can wish in life for..god blessed you with the power of taking care of this little kid when he needed most. Above all you are a great human being ,n being a women you have it all,warmth ,love,courage to bestow on other.keep it up
Shruti Giri
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07 Jul 2017