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hello mommies..i am feeling very low.I am leaving my husband and going to my mothers place..As his work place is in isolated area he will not b able to come and meet me..He might get leave when i deliver the baby.But since 2 day I am getting worse thoughts as of he will not b with me.He wont come ever and i will have to take care of baby on my own..I know this are worse thought but now i fear of night,as soon as i go on bed i fear of this thought and cant get sleep.He is very caring and i know he is helpless as its his job which forces him to be  away but i cant sustain my thought and i cry and cry seeing his pic but am not able to share it with him...how to get out of this thoughts...I am trying a lot to divert my mind but i am not able to..pls help me.
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Dr. Shilpitha

Dear Mansi....<br> I promise i went through this feeling... being a doctor i used to have hell lot of negative thoughts even after having busy schedules... i shared these feelings with my hubby... he helped me lot... we started to do yoga and meditation which actually keep you positive... i think you should share all these with him... it reduces stress in your mind...

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Barkha Mittal

hi <font color ="#3b5998"><b> @63728e073f31520016a69a03 </b></font>.. u shud watch "The secret"&nbsp; . its very motivational and will surely give u positive <u>energy</u>

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Pearl Garg

wat to write dear....v all sailing in the same boat...but be strong,watch gud movie,read Hanuman chalisa for evil thought's,books... learn something very productive...search gud things on internet...think how u will take care of child..make a shopping list...inshort indulge urself so much that u can't get the time of stupids thoughts...so chill relax &amp;<u>njoy</u>

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shalini sharma

Hey Mansi. I am 35 weeks pregnant and the same situation is with me . <br> my husband is in Gurgaon and I am in Jaipur from the beginning of my pregnancy. <br> yes night is very tough to spend alone . but trust me you will feel strong day by day and will come out very strong at the time of delivery.<br> one more thing .don't cry it will harm your child .make your child strong . take good care of yourself and try to make yourself happy. read books , listen music. stay with your family so that you will feel good with them.<br> be strong and stay blessed :)

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Mansi Shah

thank u so much everyone...i will try my best to b positive and confine the thoughts..feels gud reading the positive thoughts.will try to have a war with my hormones wining it positively..really feels gud..thanks a lot..

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