Hello. Mujhe 22 months ki beti hai. Wo kuch mahino se bahoot ziddi or roti he. Khane me bhi bahoot masti hai. Or bahoot weight loss huwa hai. Mujhe depression ka issue hai or very h8ght temper hu. Baby jab roti hai meri heartbeat fast hoti hai. Or agar baby ko samjane k bawajood wo na samji toh bahoot chillati hoon mai usey or phir kabi mar bhi padti hai. Mujhe bahoot afssos hota hai. Mai kya karu. Mobile dekhne ki bhi bahoot aadat hai. I want to be good parent.
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05 Jul 2019
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anjna gautam
Dear hmara behavior jasa hota hai wasa hi baccho ka bhi hote jata hai. Bacche humse hi sikhte hai, to agr ap usse politely baat krenge to aap dekhna wasa hi wo bhi kregi. Or jab apko gussa aata hai aap apna mind divert kre, aisa hota hai jab hme kaam ki ya koi family isse ki tention hoti hai to kahi na kahi hm baccho par nikal dete hai. Aisa na kre, jo kaam apko krna pasand hai ap wo krne lage tabhi jase mujhe mobile me vedios dekhna pasand hai to mai tab makeup or hairstyle ya new collection of Kurtis aisi hi vedio dekhne lag jati hu phr jab maan shant ho jata hai tab beti ko btati hu k aisa nhi krte isse apko chot lag jayegi ya meaow (cat)aa jati hai, (jisse bhi baby darti hai) aise drane or samjhane ki koshish kre, koi reason de use jisse apki baat shi lage or wo maan jaye. Or jha tak mobile dekhne ki baat hai to aajkal to sabji bacche aise hai. To koi tension mat lo jyda. Jab school jane lag jayegi to apne aap kum ho jata hai. Meri beti bhi dekhti mai phr kya krti hu usse khati hu ke agr aap ab mobile nhi rakhoge to next time nhi milega poem dekhne k liye to wo maan jati hai. Or jab jyda der ho jati hai mobile dekhte dekhte to mai usse 10 tak count krne k liye kahti hu phr wo mujhse khati hai 5 min me rakh dungi ab usse to time dekhna nhi aata par mujhe to aata hai😂😂 1 min baad hi phr kah deti hu ab ho gye 5 min ab rakho to wo rakh deti hai. Usko next time mobile na milne ka bhi dar rahta hai to wo dhere dhere baat manne lagi aise hi phr kam jo jata hai mobile dekhna.... Ya ap aisa kre mobile ka net band kr de/ off kr de mobile or baby s kahe k khrab ho gya jab papa aayenge tab theek karayenge. Bas aise hi reason bacche ko de or samjhaye dhree dhere phr baccho wo bhi adat ho jati hai...<br>
Or jha tak khana na khane ki baat hai to jab aap khana khate ho tab baby ko sath m bithaye or usse alg plate m(baby ki alg cartoon wali colourful plate m serve kre) wo toda khayi or jyda gira degi lekin apne hath s khane m baccho ko accha lagta hai. Jo dish use pasand hai wo bnakr de baby ko. Jab aap kitchen m kahana bnate ho to baby ko chote chote चकला और बेलन se roti banwaye or khelne de.or jab use plate m khana serve kroge to ye kahe ki ye apne hi bnayi hai wo badi khush hokr phr khayegi.
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06 Jul 2019
Akanksha Bhuri
Hi, main samajh pa rhi hu ki aap kaisa mehsoos karte ho. Bachhe sambhalna aaasan kaam nai hai, aur is age mein aksar bachhe ziddi ho jate hai. Khane ke mamle mein bhi, aur baaki cheezon mein bhi. You are a good parent, par aakhir aap bhi ek Insan ho. Parenting aapke liye bhi ek journey hai, koi bhi perfect nai hota. Bachha jab baat nai manta, tab gussa aana normal hai. Par haath uthane ke bajaye, aapko kuch aur karna chahiye. Maarne se bachhe ziddi ho jate hai. Jaha tak ho sake, haath uthana avoid kijiye. Aap uska Dhyan batane ke liye kuch kar sakte hai. Agar vo na maane, to usko avoid kare. Vaha se uth kar chale jaye jab tak aapka dimag shant na ho jaye. Uske rone par Dhyan na de. Usse baat na kare aur kahe ki jabtak vo chup nai Hoti aap baat nai karoge. Dheere dheere vo samjhegi ki rone se kuch nai hone wala. Depression ke liye aapko zarur medical help Leni chahiye. Ye aapke aur baby dono ke liye achha nai hai. Khane ke mamle mein bhi bachhe Ko zyada force na kare, usko jab bhookh hogi vo khayegi. Khud se khane de, khana banane mein usse bhi shaamil kare. Vo aapko khana banate dekhegi to usse bhi interest aayega. Alag alag cheezo ke bare mein bataye, sabziyon ke Naam bataye. Mobile ki aadat Kam karne ke liye mera ek post hai, vo aap padhe aapko shayad kuch madad milegi aapko. Main link share Karti hu.<br>
http://app.babychakra.com/feedpost/114347?ref=Akf5fc&
For depression aap therapist ke pass jaye woh apki help karenge, bachche ko sambhalane ke liye patience chahiye so aap ko pehle apna depression thik karna hoga.
anjna gautam
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06 Jul 2019