I GOT MARRIED IN 2013 AUGUST ,IN SEPT I SHIFTED WITH MY MUM AS I HAVE NO BRO OR SIS NOR EVEN DAD (MUM DAD DIVORCED) so basically i am the only one.
My hubby told me that its better to shift wid my mum as she is alone and diabetic so if god forbit something happenes to her we will be there to take care of her.i was not really ready for this coz from start i never had a good rapo wid my mum its like east meet west.i had my rapo wid my nana and nani but they passed abt 8 yrs back.
So when i got shifted wid my mom all was good till one year then she gave my hubby 5 lac to help him in his business we thought that she wants us to have a good life and is helping but what we knew that what actually her plans were????
Later she told my hubby to take a home loan on her house and use that money in business i told my hubby not too do so but he didnt listened and finally took the loan ...now the current situation is that she mentally toutures my hubby give him.bad words insults him tell him 1000 time that he was nothing when we came what he is ,is coz of her and from past 4 yrs we are just fighting with her.
Last year i got seperated we shifted in a rented house there also she troubled us so much she use to come and shout ask my hubby money for daily expense and etc due to this my hubby went in dept.
Now also she is the same i feel bad for my hubby that he is suffering so much i was always against my mum and her offering but he never listened to me now his health is also going down.he is mentally vry disturbed .he has load of loan then house daily expeneses kids expenses etc coz of which he is not ready to shift from here (my mom's place)
This my 3rd pregnancy was also forced by her to keep I dont know how to help my hubby out of this we tried so much but couldnt and if we want to stay peacfully seperate we need to pay her that 15 lac ka loan. What to do to save my hubby from this insult its hurts me badly.inside.😢😢😢😢😢
01 Sep 2018
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syeda lubna
Hi Tabassum. Talk to your mother regarding this alone. Tell her how much you feel bad if she keeps insulting your husband. She's your mother she will understand. Try to understand her need for the money. Both are important your mother and husband.
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12 Sep 2018
Naiyya Singh
:( it’s a tough situation indeed. Think as long as you and your hubby are one unit , he will Get strength from your relationship. Your mom must be also going through a lot mentally I think .. this is not normal behaviour.. sounds like she feels frustrated .. perhaps she genuinely wanted to@help and now needs the money...
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02 Sep 2018
Tabassum shaikh
Its been 4 yrs bearing her.we have spoken to her abt all this 100 times but she didnt changed a bit nor she neither her behaviour
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01 Sep 2018
Tabassum shaikh
She doesnt has any point of view she just want to trouble us and insult my hubby.we are stuck thats the only thing she wants.
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01 Sep 2018
Dr. AMRITA
Have you tried to explain ur mom all about this? And try to understand her point of view. Y she needs all the money back if u all are staying with her and listening to her and taking care of her?
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12 Sep 2018