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Hi all m not well since karva chauth.. having tonsilitis ..my husband feels that it's cos of the fast  and I m trying to gain his sympathy ...he has threatened that if I ever fast again for any reason he leave me and go away..i do a Tuesday fasting for my lo..what should I do..i am having  lot of fights with him..he doesn't like that all the baby things are from my mothers place but if I tell him to go shopping for her he says it's money waste..i m getting depressed and feel like crying ..yest he told if I remain so dull and depressing then I should go away to my mom s place .and should come back when I m better...he says that I always say tabiyat kharab hai..the fact is in the last 8 months since my recovery from the CS this is the 1 st time I have got sick..pls help
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Priya Sood

hi dear!! a big hug from us. What makes you happy and what are you doing evertday for yourself. When you are happy others will be too  Sujata try your best to be more stronger. For some time just take s break and in a good time talk to hubby

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Sujata S

thanks @Foram Amreen and Rebecca..for your encouraging words and suggestions..have talked to MIL..will be going to the parlour today and den some shopping

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Rebecca Prakash

Relax dear don't take everything to your mind. His concern is you falling sick so obviously if you are going to fast every week then it will make you more sick. Take it in a way that he is concerned about you, Do one thing fast for your baby but do fruit and water fasting.  You will not fall sick or look dull, the first rule of fasting is others should not know that you are fasting you got to look like that. And whatever you pray with dedication is what god looking for and not your fast. You have to be happy and look happy for your husband and baby. The baby looks at you so please cheer up, Go for a walk keep yourself active and yes baby no husband likes if the wife keeps saying Tabiyat kharab hai , We will also not like if our husbands have a dull face all the time and says I'm not well.. Every husband thinks shopping is waste of money so ignore that and don't bring from your parents house, If it's needed let him buy.  Take life positively.

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Am Zam

1st of all u need to recover back ur dullnes...plz take care of ur self...have a hair makeover get a spa or facial..try to attract ur hubby as far as ur fasting is concern for ur lo..make him understand y u r fasting this ur faith in that fast etc.<br> When he is in good mood go on a date leaving ur baby with ur inlaws for sometime..bring back the spark u will definitely see change in him..&<b><a style="text-decoration:none" href=app.babychakra.com/hashtag/#9786;><font color='#2b5998'>#9786;</font></a></b>

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Foram Modi

Relax dear nd talk to him calmly nd make him understand

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