hi all...want to share one thing it's about my marital life..I married one year back...now I have baby girl..my husband abused me all the time ...if I try to tell anything to him he use bad words to me...I told him serval time not to do that
..its cause mental pressure on me...he is trying to proove that iam mentlly ill to hide his mistake ...he take care of me and my baby very well but he buy whatever I ask..but material things won't make happy...I want respect and dignity in his home. but he is not ready to give that ....he is not ready to change at all...he insult me infront of his family member every time ..if I give answer back he try to proove infront of his family member that iam arrogant and not listen anything. ...his mothet also support him and tell to all his relative that iam always wrong....I told my husband that if he abuse me once again I will give police complaint . but for that he said to me to leave his home permrntally with my baby...as he know that iam completely depending on him by financially he is just blackmailing that he will send back me to my mother place ...I don't know what to do now..I don't know how to change him...Iam completely in bad situation ...
..its cause mental pressure on me...he is trying to proove that iam mentlly ill to hide his mistake ...he take care of me and my baby very well but he buy whatever I ask..but material things won't make happy...I want respect and dignity in his home. but he is not ready to give that ....he is not ready to change at all...he insult me infront of his family member every time ..if I give answer back he try to proove infront of his family member that iam arrogant and not listen anything. ...his mothet also support him and tell to all his relative that iam always wrong....I told my husband that if he abuse me once again I will give police complaint . but for that he said to me to leave his home permrntally with my baby...as he know that iam completely depending on him by financially he is just blackmailing that he will send back me to my mother place ...I don't know what to do now..I don't know how to change him...Iam completely in bad situation ...
have patience n ignore him , I went through all this being pregnant or else go to ur hometown den dey will know ur <u>value</u>
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hey anon i am very sad to hear your problem..but you don't loose your confidence dear..we all are with you.first thing that your husband why shouldn't understand uh.first of all I'll try to change your husband opinion about you.you teach them that i m your wife first m a women so plz try to understand my feelings and respect me.i m leave my all things only for you .my whole life only for uh ..so plz forget all that ..and ignore mostly negative impact.and enjoy wid ur daughter.n ignore other family members..if ur is urs all r in ur faver.. you'll see..good luck.
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dont worry dear its happening in all families but one thing u should mind that each husband even male do the same which is happen with u so dont think too much and enjoy ur life with ur girl it much be better, because evev u do job and take his responsibility there will be no change , better way u change urself its good for all
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First of all, do not be afraid of the threat of being sent to your mother's place. But, at the same time, talk to your husband when he is not agitated and tell him that you want to support him in his responsibility of taking care of the Family. Do jot extend the fight when both of you are in anger. Wait for your anger to go and then speak to him and your parents for support, instead of being afraid of them also.
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19 Aug 2017