hi friends .. really upset..living with in law in a joint family..m a very happy girl but  a very stressful mom ..every one in my family is fond of my lo it's great but they don't mentain hygiene at all ..don't wash hand .. before touching her. .kiss her thousand time.. though they have cold they will play with her..make loud noise will c sleep...they just don't leave her alone for a single hour only at night c is alone with me ..I get irritated alot ..only my mil.. understand it and try to tell people but no one cares about it c caught cold today . tomorrow is her vaccines ..jab thik hoti hai sab ko Khel na hai but jab rat ko wo Tang kar ti hai no one takes care it's only me or my mil..my mil is too sick now m alone ..I hate to stop any one ..coz m not that kind of a person  and my stay will last one more month only ..feels frustrated ..hubby at discuss karti hun wo alag lacture dey the hai keep patients they love her ect..when I told they don't love her but being  careful while hendeling her that all I need ..