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hi.. I am 11 weeks pregnant my inlaws are so strict on me, that I cant go outside to be refresh, cant eat outsyd anything and my parents are so far it takes 14 hours train journey so they strickly told that I cant go der till my 7 month..

I am not comfortable at all I miss my home dr. allows to go I dont know what to do plz help me

is this safe to go??

its very hard to pass the time at home all time sitting and resting. I m not having gud tym at all.
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sonal gupta

once ur second trimester start u can start walk n all.<br> till d time be positive.. it happens with many dils who are staying in joint family setup.. just think positive..; thibk they are caring u extra... as everyone is so protective in 1st trimester for mother n baby.... talk to ur family on phone... read .. watch

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Kavita Sahany

Hey dear I understand.. is it possible to call your parents here for sometime ..<br> Be positive don't think about this issue much..good that your hubby is supportive ...take small walks in near by parks saying the doctor had suggested...eat good food .watch movies on TV ...read good books ..TC

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Anu

I know the pain believe me I m on the bed rest for 2 months. Only goes outside to visit doctor. I only can suggest u to keep; involve in some interesting things. To give birth to a baby is like Tapasya itself. Your little sacrifice can bless u with a baby in just few months. There r some womens who didn't get this blessing. You r very very lucky. So please be happy &amp; if possible call ur parents to meet u in ur home.

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Madhumita Shah

hi thank you so much dear..<br> but i hv no gud frnd here my hubby allows me to go but my MIL is so strict dat anythng may happen in traveling so I also fear if anythng happens things will be worst.. how to convince her without quarreling I dont understand.<br> actually I had little spotting meanwhile so she says dr. allows but things may occur like dis.

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asha chaudhry

hi madhumita, i'm sorry to hear this. your dr is the best judge to tell you whether you can travel right now or not. ideally everyone waits for first trimester to get over. and second trimester is the safest to travel if you have no complications. in fact u should be going out every single day to walk! it's very important to walk everyday - ideally with a good friend who keeps you in a positive mood! would ur parents be okay if you spent all ur pregnancy time at their home? it will be more comfy for you. and you will be happy. it's also important to be happy when you are pregnant!! do speak to ur dr and of course your hubby and if your parents are okay with u being there - then pls consider doing that. tc. and keep us updated. either way, feel free to hang out with all the expecting moms like u here on the app!

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