Hi ..i hav 2 kids 1 n 7 respectively both boys v live in a; nuclear family. plz help me understand this .. my son 7yrs old many a times hugs me n cries also cries alone sometimes saying u wont Lev me n go na.. he never used to do this. He was a very happy child caring n understanding would gel with anyone would go for overnights to nani house,Masi house,Bua house also my uncle's house now no more now he doesn't even go to play without me .. today he asked me " mom is house work very difficult?? wat if u had to go away for sometime will papa b able to take care of me n babu??" My husband heard n he replied "I will try my best" I did not know how to react. Also felt little scared thinking what if it comes true..
I think the child is feeling insecure dear. Why don’t you lovingly ask him if someone had told him that his mom would leave him and go. Also please take care that you are not ignoring him because of the little one. Children feel very very insecure in such things. Talk to him on a regular basis. Try asking him if something happened at school. Or if someone at school has been mistreating him. I understand it is very difficult for you to see your child in such state but deal with it very carefully.
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Hi dear.. reading all this gives a feeling that the child is feeling somewhat insecure and scared..mY be he sees you working a lot and getting too tired or worked up..may be has heard something somewhere or seen something on say TV..also coming of another kid leads to diversion of attention..care..love..and even little change sometimes affects kids..see your younger one is too small for understanding all this and needs you physically more.mtry and give more time and attention to elder one..talk to him.and give assurance that you are always there for them..you love them a lot and work is part of life..once he is assured you won't leave him..he will be same again..
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Madhavi Cholera
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21 Jun 2018