well sabki life mein drama na ho toh woh life hi kya....but hum log ache chapters khud apne hath se likh saktein hai....see kissi ka kuch nahin Jana hai...but hum apne life ke Sabse precious moment ko kissi ke liye ya unko soch soch ke kyu kharab karein...woh pal aise jiyo jaise woh jindagi ke akheere pal ho...khush raho & khush rakho...apni MIL ko bus ek simple smile de ker wahan se jaldi maro..woh kuch bolti hai toh apne Mann mein apne & baby ke baarein mein positive plans karo..!! apni life mein koi bhi Aisa regret feelings mat Lana ki kash main ush time aise ker leti ya vaise...unhone apni life ji li apne tareeke se aab aapko jina hai kuch acha lane ke liye....all the best dear...&njoy..yeh pal pata nahin kal ho ya na ho..

thnku everyone fr making me relax. i will talk with everyone daily to chnage my mood. n luv u all pls take care <u>everyone</u>

i cnunderstand ur prblm reallyy veryy well,coz m going through same thing....

same is my problem. i got married when i was 23 nd I feel that i m still immature to take people like my mil in a ryt way. she is 59 nd retired service women from CRPF. My husband says She is mentally unfit. Nd i met her only once at my marriage then in Nov 2016 my hubby got tranfered to Uttrakhand which is my SASURAL nd here he called my mil to stay with us. We daily counselled her the same thing that she should stay with us rather with other people like her SIL or sister etc. nd we ended with separating our kitchen. since then i developed this feeling of living with a stranger with whome i have to stay with but cant share anything be it my problems or chores or anything. i dont feel like going to her nd have a feel free chit chat with her. now u can understand how difficult it is to share ur home/place with such a personality. its my 1st pregnancy, nd i have never been to remote/rural/hilly areas b4 this, new place, mental mil, new people, i m all alone here, nobody to share my feelings with, my husband also can't understand all this bcoz he is back home in the evening from his work nd already stressed. i m almost succumbing. things btwn me nd my mil r bcoming worse with time. still i cant blame nybody for all this fuss. everybody has their own valid reasons. all i m left with is to follow spritual tactics to tackle this stressful phase. day b4 yesterday my mil made me almost faint by arousing me to yell at her. i loosed my temper totally. i just forgot that my pregnant nd went haywire. later on felt so sorry for my baby in my womb. but still i have to live with her. there's no solution to <u>this</u>. i can just wish nd pray to god that my baby wouldn't be affected by this <u>chaos</u>

Thanks Sumira n Asha