Hi moms
Little history before confession
Husband family not happy with my girl child they didn't even visit me once u delivered girl baby. Especially fil said girl baby is burden to their family.
After that somehow days went my baby is 18 month old now. Till now they just act before relatives like he is having affection on my daughter.
I stayed there place for 1 month thats the really wrost phase i had. Feeled full of negativity about myself and my daughter. Because she not so social friendly child. She always with me. She wont go with mil or fil even after staying 1 month there. So i didnt helped much in their house hold chores. Its is village place and i brought up in city. Its Totally new to me sorry to say but i adjusted to the core. She demands me to wake up at 5 and get water from street because of scarcity. We need to get water from roadside pipe. When my daughter is 1year old she wakes up every hour to get feed. Really challenging one to do household chores as their expectations. Fil dont like my cooking style. Nowadays he dont have good impression on myself.
Now coming to the scenario.
My mil is in ill, she needs 10 days bedrest. Hubby and myself living in Chennai city. He said to go their native and takecare my mil fil and bil. Like they are not eating good household chores are there.
But my point is how i going to manage all theses things with my baby. Like i need to cook 3 times and manymore to do and my kid is a prikey eater and she make me to carry all time.
Morethan to that my fil he express anger so much. He generally don't like me. My mil in bedrest for last 5 days. Till now idnt visit now he has point to kill with his words.
Really don't no what to do.
Little history before confession
Husband family not happy with my girl child they didn't even visit me once u delivered girl baby. Especially fil said girl baby is burden to their family.
After that somehow days went my baby is 18 month old now. Till now they just act before relatives like he is having affection on my daughter.
I stayed there place for 1 month thats the really wrost phase i had. Feeled full of negativity about myself and my daughter. Because she not so social friendly child. She always with me. She wont go with mil or fil even after staying 1 month there. So i didnt helped much in their house hold chores. Its is village place and i brought up in city. Its Totally new to me sorry to say but i adjusted to the core. She demands me to wake up at 5 and get water from street because of scarcity. We need to get water from roadside pipe. When my daughter is 1year old she wakes up every hour to get feed. Really challenging one to do household chores as their expectations. Fil dont like my cooking style. Nowadays he dont have good impression on myself.
Now coming to the scenario.
My mil is in ill, she needs 10 days bedrest. Hubby and myself living in Chennai city. He said to go their native and takecare my mil fil and bil. Like they are not eating good household chores are there.
But my point is how i going to manage all theses things with my baby. Like i need to cook 3 times and manymore to do and my kid is a prikey eater and she make me to carry all time.
Morethan to that my fil he express anger so much. He generally don't like me. My mil in bedrest for last 5 days. Till now idnt visit now he has point to kill with his words.
Really don't no what to do.
Difficult situation indeed Anon, My advice would be forget what they spoke or how they treated you. Someone is ill and she needs your help, Just go and do what you can do. Ignore if they comment on your cooking skills etc, Someone old is sick as a human we need to help. Husband's mom so he will definitely expect you to help him. Now cheer up and pack your bags, trust me end of the trip you will feel happy irrespective of how they are going to treat you.
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13 Sep 2019