hii everyne feeling very low upset stressed feel like crying cried alot last night couldnt sleep whole night since 2 weeks mah prblm is my mil is very sweet on msh face but she keeps on fillin mah husband years i dnt feel like eating if i eat i vomit it out she says i dont knw how to tke cre of mahself nd lil one inside me mah husband i dnt knw whether its all in mah mind or he really doesnt love me anymre he remains busy at work till 8 then he goes to gym cumin home soo tired den he will be busy on phn we will hardly tlk fr 10 min in a day i stay awake whole night i never make him stay awake today its sunday nd he has gone out wid frnds whenever he goes out almost every week its wid frnds since i had been pregnant i feel like he is ignoring me i had gained wlot of weight i am 93 kgs now at 17 week when i worry abt it nd say anythng regarding dis den he will get angry will say to me have baby or loose weight i already had 1 misscarriage...... he gets angry on every lil thing i feel like he doesnt wanna tlk to me anymre i had love marriage but still all this help me out guys pls tell kya karun..... har baar soch leti hun ki i wont tlk to him until he does but then again i have to start whenever i cry even yesterday he would never hug me or say dnt cry.... pls help me out guys... suggest me smthimg😢😢😭😭😭
hi Anon...we understand what u r going thru <br>
Sit with ur husband may b over the weekend and talk to him.nicely u will have to gather urself dear for ur baby ...<br>
he may not b completely ready for a child ..as mothers have to get mentally prepared for this change so do fathers.<br>
or he may be worried within...if so tell him don't worry all will b fine this time ...only thing he has to stay calm n positive so that u r calm and it will help u b happy during ur pregnancy days which ia best for ur child<br>
take care dear n lots of <u>hugs</u>
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thankew everyone fr ur valuable suggestions nd love i will try to do everythng advised.... mah mil she is caring i now she cares fr me more den anybdy else she scolds her son even if he do smthng that annoys me she has served me meals aftr every 2 hr on bed since i had been pregnant.........i think its mah husband behaviour which make me think bad abt her......as far as mah husband i feel its immpossible to get things working out with stubborn person like him......guys i dont have any personal life no frnds no nothing mah whole day revolves around him bt thats opposite fr him.....i dnt understand any way to deal wid him
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lots of love to you anon💞 pehle aap apna regime change karo. keep yourseld busy . . if your doc says it's okay, then you go for a walk . . if possible with a neighbor . . you also try and meet your friends every now and then. . speak to your husband araam se, without tears (sometimes some men get more annoyed by women who cry) . . don't accuse him of anything. . simply try and tell him how you feel . . if your mil is sweet to your face, then maybe she's sweet behind of your back as well . . give her the benefit of the doubt and try and share some of your feelings with her also . .just try and make her feel more involved . . simply by asking her what to eat and stuff . . for a change of routine , you go at your mom's place . . also speak to your doc about weight gain . . ! maybe they might suggest you something. stay strong . . ! keep positive . . listen to good music . . have faith . . things fall into place eventually . . lots of love and power to 💞💞
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Hello anon! ditto happened vd me so I can understand exactly how r u feeling. this is d worst thing dat cud happen vd us women during pregnancy. it makes us feel like having a baby is only our thing nd not others. afterall d baby belongs to everyone in the home then <u>y</u> we've to take care of us nd baby alone during pregnancy. y people get so confined to their own work rather than helping us to take care of ourself nd d baby nd keeping <u>us</u> happy for d sake of healthy baby atleast. u can wait for d day ur hubby initiate a talk vd u then u can ask like "y don't u spend some quality time vd me, it feels like I'm all alone, i don't know whether it's bcoz of pregnancy hormones or what but i need ur support, i really need ur time during this phase, i want u too to involve in this journey of 9 months, u can't leave me alone to go through this phase" this kind of conversation might get u answer to this thought.
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03 Sep 2017