Hii frnds guys i am 24 weeks pregnant frm yesterday night i had been crying having vry bad mood wanna say smthng dats weird actually i am married in joint family my csin sil her 2 kids r too naughty yesterday dn8 they spoiled leather of mah bed wid pen marks all over i got too angry dat i slapped the 2.5 yr old when he did dat fr the secnd tym it takes all mah energy strength in cleaning it nd he again did same within 5 min mah husband started fighting wid me hw dare u slap the child u urself r abt to be mom bt u hve no feelings if u will treat ur childern like u go bck to ur native place i was soo upset den mah mil also started i was like the thng fr which i had to hear soo mch did i brought i frm mah native place mah mil says we hve spent money on it bt we value child more than the bed i was soo upset dat i alwys took cre f thngs as if its mah own house bt its nt guys really depressed was i really wrong?? I feel like runing away frm dis place......pls help😭😭😭😭😭
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I am upset abt the inciddnt bt i am more upset wid the way mah husband behaved i kne frm 3 months bfre that he tried to have affair wid smne clse to me but dat person told me we had fight but sorted i compromised whenever anythng like dis happens all dat thngs start cuming to mah mind nd i keep on crying he is unaffected yesterday n8 wat soever happened he went to work today was tlking wid his frnda on phn happily he was unaffected do u guys agree if i take decision to get seperated earlier i was likebi will abort the child bt den everyone on baby chakra thankew dat u guys stopped me frm doin <u>so</u>
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19 Oct 2017
Sonal S
Hi Anon, you must be feeling really bad about the whole incident. I just want to let you know that it is normal for women to have mood swings during pregnancy - it can make you terribly irritable and angry. Having said that, you can think for yourself whether it is ok to take out your anger on a child. You might be angry with the family members, but usually children are innocent. You can speak, talk directly to parents but avoid expressing your anger on a child. Rather, if you speak to the child, he will be able to understand you better than anyone else. So, make him your friend, it will also help you in preparing yourself for the new baby. Write or speak to a friend to share your feelings instead of keeping it within you. It will be harmful for your baby too. Take care
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19 Oct 2017
asha chaudhry
Hey anon. So sorry to hear about this. Dont let others spoil ur mood. U focus on ur health and the baby and avoid confrontation with others. In pregnancy everyone is hormonal so best ignore things that bother u. Tc. Enjoy ur diwali. Hugs!
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19 Oct 2017
asha chaudhry
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