to allow us to rest is ok but then to eat what they say, do what they say is the part I don't like... actually they don't help they are also guessing what is wrong with the baby and that I feel creates more fuss because some say baby is crying because of tummy ache, some say something else and are juggling with the baby where as all the baby want to do is have some peace and go to sleep... they just don't <u>understand</u>

whatever rituals we follow&nbsp; generally have strong reasons associated with them&#160; so those 40 days is basically given to mother and baby so that she can recover completely and also take&#160; care of baby w/o any worries.&#160; sometimes it was kind of upsetting but was manageable .

Those 40 days fr me lije i jst wanna go my mothers home.... There was each nd every facility nd live given by my in laws nd hubby.... But still i was jst waitin whenwill this time will complete ... Somwhere sown d line i was frustated wid rituals... Nd when it was nt followed by me.. I used to hear coments frm the old ones.. I used to cry a lot... The main was my mom she only get me... No one else

those 40 days wasfull of mixed emotions ....dat was gud for healing process for mother but i missed my mother home coz i could not go der b4 40 days nd i deliversd in june month so too much hot nd not allowed to b under fan was worse ...

I was happy that finally I delivered a healthy baby .. I didn't even felt the stress as I was happy with my baby but the worst things was my husband and in laws tortured me with their nonsense talk ... on the 4th day itself but I overcame everything keeping in mind that if I react on those it will have impact on my health and on my baby also so I simply avoided .