I am mother of 9 months boy, sum time my boy behave cranky or mamms boy which irritates me.. I try n keep calm by making him understand or play or eat food, feeding, luv etc bt wen i loose my temper i shouts or yell on him which i too know is not good. I feel guilty Thus wat shd i do in such case to avoid such problem?
Nimisha Mistry
31 Jul 2017
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Shruti Giri
<font color ="#3b5998"><b> @620b245e3fba0f001be3dd1a </b></font> hey..to be very honest with you...plz don't do that as I have done and I can tell u the exact consequences of it...my boy wasn't cranky or mammas boy at that age but he used to crawl to the every corner of the house... he would pull something from somewhere, get hurt ,fall down and as being alone at home I couldn't manage with him..... sometimes I would get crazy, shouting on 10 months old boy... but it worked the other way round...he became more n more cranky, stopped eating well... sometimes he would get scared of me n run away...<br>
I read a lot about these things, learned to control my anger n tried not to show it on him...but don't feel guilty about it.. don't blame urself..it's just a situation...it will go away.... sometimes, we, who leaves in a nuclear family face this problem...but one thing I would like to tell u... other's suggestions wouldn't be that much effective for u as everyone is different..u only have to figure it out Why he is doing that n sort it out accordingly...don't be angry on him, try to control next time and don't feel guilty about it also...u r a human being too...it happens!!<br>
all the best!!!
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01 Aug 2017
Upasana Sharma
baby will always come to mumma in the end. its okay they are coming to a learning age. he is learning new things, so that behaviour is expected. u being a mother needs to be calm and patient. I understand sometimes it's not in your control. make hi learn or ddo things in a playing mode. play with him. tell him politely what is right or wrong. he will get this.
Shruti Giri
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01 Aug 2017