I do not understood how to behave with him becoz he is very very much naughty .no one liKe to play with him .evry day m teach him good thing but he is no listening n remember my things ...he is irrited his frnds small kids ...and when his frnds our neighbors relatives no one liking him then that time i feel very bad
Nayana
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Shilpi Mahajan
@616daacd202a1a0013096396 : You may have to model your behavior through scenarios. try and play with him as if you were a kid and see how he behaves? What bothers him. To me he is seeking attention. Try and spend some time with him in constructive work. Involve him in your work. If you are in the kitchen try and cook with him. Also get him into sports like karate. It may help him dissipate his energy and frustrations. Lastly, do meditation with him for one minute a day.
Please don’t feel bad as your emotions easily pass on to him..
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22 Feb 2018
Aditi Ahuja
Hi Nayana...don't worry. All kids are different and kids change with age. The same kid who came and hugged you as a toddler, may start replying back, revolting and being stubborn at an older age...There are many things like may be he himself us troubled or bullied by others and now has become repulsive, or may be his company; is such...you can start by trying to spend more time..very little in beginning so that he doesn't become conscious that there is some issue...I have followed this technique like I talk to my daughter about many things which tell me indirectly what goes on in her mind...next expose him to positive things like; activities, reading good books, meditation etc which will give peace. Try to make him feel loved and special sometimes by rewarding him.; It will definitely take time and effort and patience but tge result will be good...
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22 Feb 2018
Ujjwal
Have u tried channeling his energy in sports related to venting aggression? I have seen a live example of my son's classmate. He used to pick up fights with every kid around but in last two years he excels in sports specially taekando and has sobered a lot. And if u r comparing your child to kids around stop doing that that must be annoying him further.
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22 Feb 2018
Nayana
Thnks yr for ur helpful advice ....ur advice is really helpfull to <u>me</u>
Shilpi Mahajan
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22 Feb 2018