I have a 6 yo. He has only one cousin. My brother in law is divorced. Another has a kid. My sister divorced recently. My parents separated when I was 19. It was an abusive marriage of 20 years. Now I'm depressed coz of my sister's divorce. She has no kids. What exactly should my kid learn from all this? What if I have a difficulty in my marriage? In that case my entire family will be of divorcees.
I'm not against ppl choosing to be happier but something about this is killing me from the inside. Please advise.
I'm not against ppl choosing to be happier but something about this is killing me from the inside. Please advise.
Hi dear first of all be positive, u have ua hubby n kid with u so pls cheer up n try to have a positive atmosphere by loving them overdose..not all marriages have bad endings so prove this to ua kid n hubby..also help ua sis n bil to overcome their sorrow n see that they take the next step in life..hope I'm right in ua situation cos I would be if it was mine ...god help u have a happy life.<br>
Kids r always curios so answer to him to understand the positive side of the situation...
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If you think you can keep your child away from this or you think your child's psychological makeup will not affect then this is practically impossible to happen. A series of divorces in your family will definitely influence your child's thinking. However, it is your responsibility to show him the positive side of it. You have to tell him that sometimes one needs to make a hard choice in life. You are the one who can mold your child's thinking and make him understand the world better.
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lots of love 💞💞
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I have a happy marriage but was feeling insecure with things around. With all your answers I have decided not to think negative about my own marriage. Thank you for the help..
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Gurpreet Kaur
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25 Jul 2017