Keep your mind proactive while handling babies at home
; ; ; ; Its very difficult to handle home as well as baby alone .it's very hard to do all; ;things at a time . I came here from my mom's place with my three month old baby, everyone in my home used to pamper me and my son.They were helpful. My mother in law handled kitchen and sometimes sister in law would come to help her .My only job was to feed him whenever he needed milk. My backpain started when aayush was sucking continuously .he was only listening to me .After feeding him I used to lay him in bed and lightly pat him to sleep .this went over till next month.;
; ; ; ;After one week my mother in law and father in law went to native place . Then began my rollar coaster ride.mom used to call me three times a day to give me tips and would ask about my and baby'shealth .my husband started going to job without tiffin for first time .he said u don't worry I will have my lunch at office canteen.just when aayush dad left for office aayush started crying then I fed him laid on front room on spreaded bedsheets covered with pillows and folded bedsheets on all sides .I dropped 3to four soft toys because he started turning and sleeping on his stomach. I used to make him to hear my recorded songs placing my mobile near by his bed and I would try to finish all kitchen work .; ; ; ; ; ; ; ; ; Then I will bath him by talking to him apply powder , drawing eyebrows with Kajal and put one tikka on his face other one on his cheek , wear him baby clothes and after feeding him would lay him on spreaded bedsheets. In between I would feed; him talk with him call him by his nick name and he would respond me with a sound like ah uh;
; ;Once; I made to sleep him at one pm I start cooking for lunch as well as dinner .he used to get up whenever I use mixer grinder or he listens cooker whistles he is a terrible napper .I used to have lunch while feeding him laying in my lap with a pillow on my lap. On that day I didn't planned but was learning tricks what I did was I just started collecting my; milk in a milk bottle. Whenever aayush start to cry I would feed him through bottle (nobody knew this). when his dad came home at evening, after having evening breakfast he took in charge of aayush and I took that time to prepare food for next day like chopping vegetables, preparing dough ,making paste of coconut because we use coconut a lot .cook vegetables etc.after dinner I would feed him then go for kitchen cleaning including washing utensils wiping platform . brushing a sink then turning off kitchen lights Windows and main ofcourse gas regulator
; ; ;After all this I try to close my eyes my sleep would be alarmed by his noise of his cry.his dad had a snoring problem as well he speak in a sleep that was the main problems I used to face at 🌃 night .when my boy sleeps then he wake up by noise of his dad snor😂.
; ; ; Next day I got early from bed nearly 5;30 am I prepared my breakfast along with lunch.Before they wake up I was done with; my routine work like a cup of chai, bathing; and soaking clothes in water mixed with soap powder . my hubby was happy to know that he is having tiffin with him.When he left for office, I; filled milk bottle with my milk and started to spent a whole day a looking after my kid that went for two months till my in laws returned from Kerala.
; ; ; These are all special memories cherished in my mind which will be vanished with me☺️ I hope you all will love my post and will understand what I m supposed to share with you.We can't say what situation we will come across but should have the patience ,control and confidence within urself to face it.I would love to know Ur experience as well so please share . #momsworld ; #raisingkids ; #proactivemoms #bbcreatorclub #homealone