m too disturbed....feels like noone cares.feel myself like i will nt even b a good mom...
hello friendz...,,
l am going through so much streSs..even more..
my inlaws keep on toking me..
even husbnd cnt even listen a single word about them.and i cnt even darre to tell him wats go wrng here in all my long day with them.actually the main problem is they are tooooomuch orthodox and i am jus in my 22s.how one cn expect me to behave like a very much mature 50 year lady..still i stay quiet.nevr ever tell them a word back.wenever they start shouting,ijus bend my head down,and no wrd no explanation came out of my mouth.and this thing takes away my smilefor weeks. my father in law hated me like anythinggg, bs tameez sikhate rehte mjhey,calls me bedhangi..(the one jisko koi manners nahi)..feels likekilling myself with my baby..this is very bad feelling i kknow...but karu kya.sara din packed in a room with his parents and brother.and sister on law to phn karke tameez sikhati h mjhe.even my hubbyis 10years older than me...very much mature...
i miss the old me,the very jollyyyyy one...the girl with her wings on ...
apneghar jaane b nhi dete..they says that ur pregnant and hum zyada care kartey h...
i miss my daddys lap.mummas kisses...
if i wouldnt b carrying my baby, then i might hav tried to kill myslef..but i hav no right to harm her..i luv my baby.
plz help
hello friendz...,,
l am going through so much streSs..even more..
my inlaws keep on toking me..
even husbnd cnt even listen a single word about them.and i cnt even darre to tell him wats go wrng here in all my long day with them.actually the main problem is they are tooooomuch orthodox and i am jus in my 22s.how one cn expect me to behave like a very much mature 50 year lady..still i stay quiet.nevr ever tell them a word back.wenever they start shouting,ijus bend my head down,and no wrd no explanation came out of my mouth.and this thing takes away my smilefor weeks. my father in law hated me like anythinggg, bs tameez sikhate rehte mjhey,calls me bedhangi..(the one jisko koi manners nahi)..feels likekilling myself with my baby..this is very bad feelling i kknow...but karu kya.sara din packed in a room with his parents and brother.and sister on law to phn karke tameez sikhati h mjhe.even my hubbyis 10years older than me...very much mature...
i miss the old me,the very jollyyyyy one...the girl with her wings on ...
apneghar jaane b nhi dete..they says that ur pregnant and hum zyada care kartey h...
i miss my daddys lap.mummas kisses...
if i wouldnt b carrying my baby, then i might hav tried to kill myslef..but i hav no right to harm her..i luv my baby.
plz help
<font color ="#3b5998"><b> @6372c1453f31520016a69ec3 </b></font> lotssof luvvvvvand hugges to u tooo <u>sweetheart</u>
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Arzoo your life is too precious and YOU MATTER! always always remember that. We ALL go through our share of problems where we feel like giving up everything. But always remember it gets better. Like Priya and Aditi and all the other moms have said, the key to your happiness lies in your hands. You HAVE to talk to your husband once. even if there is an age difference between the two of you, he is still your husband and you should be able to share your concerns with him. You don't have to complain about your in laws but there comes a time in our lives when we have to stand up for our ground. You have a voice. make it heard. Do not be rude but be assertive. love yourself! Dress up nice. Go for walks In a garden or some place green. listen to relaxing music. Meditate and ask for clarity. What kind of difference do you think you want in your life? What do you think can be done to get it? Talking , more often than not, sorts out things. Learn to talk to your in laws . lots of love Arzoo. Power and strength to you!! Stay active here and connect with moms.
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warm wala hug u backkk <font color ="#3b5998"><b> @616d0591b34e550013eb9a72 </b></font>........i ll try to divert my mind frm them to u ppl..may b this will <u>helP</u>
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Dear Arzoo, first a hug. You have a beatuful name. Remind yourself what it means. Bus arzoo hi hain. Keep that wish that hope that happiness. Dear, our corners of society are someewhat weird. The elders may have their own way of saying things. They are from a different setting. Pls dont lose heart. I heard something i would like to share - keep the keys to your happiness in your own pocket. Happiness is defined by us. Think about it. Pls pls pls talk to us more. Show us your jolly happy You! Would like to hear much more from you. So tomorrow post about what you like doing. Ok?
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09 Jun 2017