Make your partner feel special
No matter what, your spouse still loves you. This is something you need to remind yourself and your spouse always. Do make efforts to make them feel special. Consider going out on a lunch date, watching a movie together, rubbing each other's back, planning surprises and giving gifts or simply do any activity that involves both of you spending some quality time together, without having any one else around. Let them know that one may have their apprehensions about indulging in a sexual act, but love is eternally bliss :-), going on and strong every minute.
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