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Dear parents first of all
A very happy new year to all of you.
Well today I will share with you the challenges that I faced and how I tackled the issues.
Chat with your partner
First of all when we were pregnant I had a one to one discussion with my partner regarding discipline that we want to inculcate in our child and that both of us should be on the same page
2 Learn to say no
We all have relatives who like to pamper our child. If you think that is not in your child best interest. Calmly and firmly tell them no.
3 I followed the time out rule
My kid also used to throw tantrums fir food and everything. But, what I did was I didn't give in. Once in a while is ok but not always. Instead of shouting, running after or force feeding my kid I left her for that period and when she asked for the food again she gets the same food.
I also followed the time out rule.
Time out rule does not mean harsh punishment. Just make the kid sit down for 5 to 10 mins. Let him. Or her know that it is their time out and mom is not talking with you for that time and mom didn't like your behavior.
This work so great because the kid takes some time but starts understanding within one or two months and this will form a positive bond between you and your kid. Mind that during time out the kid should be sitting in front of your eyes and don't lock the kid in a room.
Slowly the kid will understand from your tone and pitch of voice and then the discipline part is easy.
Shouting or hitting will not work because the kid might think that hitting is ok. And believe me sometimes teaching the kid practically is also important.
Let the kid experience the side effects. My daughter was not waking up for school on time for 15 days. Then on 16 th day I didn't wake her up. She got late for school and teacher told her about it.
The very next day she was up on one sound of alarm. The teacher didn't scold her. I had a discussion with the teacher earlier to help me out.
So, these are some of the tips tell me how you like it in the comment section.
Dear parents first of all
A very happy new year to all of you.
Well today I will share with you the challenges that I faced and how I tackled the issues.
Chat with your partner
First of all when we were pregnant I had a one to one discussion with my partner regarding discipline that we want to inculcate in our child and that both of us should be on the same page
2 Learn to say no
We all have relatives who like to pamper our child. If you think that is not in your child best interest. Calmly and firmly tell them no.
3 I followed the time out rule
My kid also used to throw tantrums fir food and everything. But, what I did was I didn't give in. Once in a while is ok but not always. Instead of shouting, running after or force feeding my kid I left her for that period and when she asked for the food again she gets the same food.
I also followed the time out rule.
Time out rule does not mean harsh punishment. Just make the kid sit down for 5 to 10 mins. Let him. Or her know that it is their time out and mom is not talking with you for that time and mom didn't like your behavior.
This work so great because the kid takes some time but starts understanding within one or two months and this will form a positive bond between you and your kid. Mind that during time out the kid should be sitting in front of your eyes and don't lock the kid in a room.
Slowly the kid will understand from your tone and pitch of voice and then the discipline part is easy.
Shouting or hitting will not work because the kid might think that hitting is ok. And believe me sometimes teaching the kid practically is also important.
Let the kid experience the side effects. My daughter was not waking up for school on time for 15 days. Then on 16 th day I didn't wake her up. She got late for school and teacher told her about it.
The very next day she was up on one sound of alarm. The teacher didn't scold her. I had a discussion with the teacher earlier to help me out.
So, these are some of the tips tell me how you like it in the comment section.
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Very nicely written...from past sum days i m also doing this time out rule n yes it wrks
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18 Nov 2019