No mountain is endless but my pain has no end. it was the incident that took all of my joy and laugh out of my life.This is a day with lot of pain and sorrow in hearth.
I was in my final year doing my masters.; when my dad met with an car accident on 12 February 2007 and was in hospital for 3 days.He died on 16 of February 2007.From that day I become strong; whatever happens and whenever happens mein nahi tutungi.When My dad expired I made my heart stone and didn't think about the lost life of my dad.The only think that was running in my mind was the persons whom i should take care my Mom 2 Younger sisters and brother.I didn't even shed a single drop of tears for my dad.I couldn't even believe now also that I have become that much stone hearted. my relatives would say dekho is ladkhi ko thoda bhi baap ke liye assu nahi.if I wanted I would have told them but no I don't wanted to create any scene over there. i knew what my dad was to me. Love bound between father and daughter; nobody will eve know. After he left us there was lots of problems.financially mentally. My grandmother she was staying with us when my dad was alive. Never expected this from her she and my chacha went to the bank with my mom removed all money. Next day she took all money with her and never returned back. Hadly any cash was left at home. Never helped us for anything.Mom never step out of the house. She went to others places to cook to feed her kids.she told us i don't want you all to suffer how your father was looking after you all i will also do. I took a job that was not enough.one day my neighbour asked my mom if she can take a order for small function. She said yes. From that time; we where getting small party order from 50 to 100 people.; Now Financially everything was going good. We started our catering business.Within 6 months of my dad pass away my younger sister marriage was arranged. She is now happily married has 2 sons one is 10 years old and 5 years old. my small ladli sis she is beautician.my bro doing business.last year he also got married and settled in his life. After my marriage mom stopped taking order.Due to her health problem.if somebody; needs help she will go to help them. How time flys it's been 11 years my dad is not with me but I know he must be watching from heaven he will happy for us how we had come out and stood together.Never gave up.it is his blessing today we all are happy and together. I love you dad. Miss you a lot🙁 One more thing I want to add those days Sunday was the best and beautiful memories I had.; I use to wait eagerly; for this day. My dad was a good cook. I was his assistant partner every Sunday. Every Sunday; dad use to cook delicious food and Sunday is;; mom rest day. She will not cook that day.that was my dad's; rule😊. I have learnt cooking from him. He was my first teacher☺ my first dish was prawns biryani which i learnt from him. My mom was always behind me to learn cooking she use to say ye ladkhi ek bhi baat nahi manti kal ko shadi hogi sasural mein tane sunegi.my dad sasural kyu she will stay with me. Ho today all memories running in my mind. I think I have to cut it.😐
Bahut kuch hai bataneko.......din choti pad jayegi
Last I want to share what my dad always he is to tell us which has always helped me in my life. 💕Insaan ko hamesha dene ki niyaat rakhni chaiye lene ki nhi.
💕Believe in God but do not depend on God.
💕Do not worry what other people think about you.
💕Keep trying, don’t quit.
🍜So guys tell me from whom did you learn cooking and what was that dish.
A warm hug for this strong girl who bravely fought back her difficult days. Your father; must be very happy watching you from heaven that his daughter is such a great cook now and such strong lady. I respect your father's words. Very true and practical.<br>
I made my first dish in class 9. I made pulao learnt it from my dear mother and asked my parents to rate it. It was a 9 on 10.
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08 Jun 2018
Bhavna Anadkat
How strong u r dear, hugs. ..like ur spirit, really ye spirit ho to all problems solve ho Jay... .ur papa proud of u. .
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08 Jun 2018
Satyam Sharma
Very beautiful article.. you are a very strong woman. My salute to <u>u</u>
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08 Jun 2018
Durga salvi
love u spirit dear. <u>big</u> hug n blessing .papa ki kami koi bhi puri nahi kr Sakta.😭😭😭😭😭
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08 Jun 2018
Akshaya Naresh
I've always thought you are a great cook Taheseen. Your father is indeed an inspiration.God <u>bless.</u>
Lubna Syeda
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08 Jun 2018