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Moms, I was visiting a gynae in my place during pregnancy .. and went to native for delivery., there we chose a hospital and went there for delivery.. bcos of some reasons, i landed into c sec..

Today, after 10 months of delivery, we visited our old doctor in bangalore and she was concerned about the reason for csec..

After my appointment today, am feeling guilty .. multiple thoughts gng thru my mind and am speechless.. did i do a mistake by going to native to deliver my baby ? Would i have delivered my baby vaginally if i had been here ? Did i do any harm to my body ?

Happened is happened and we both r fine now.. but y am i feeling guilty 😧😧😧
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Thank u moms, am feeling better now 😊😊

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Revauthi Rajamani

Hi mommy<br> For your information I underwent two c sections, n still doing good God's will. Nothing was planned, it happened as per doctor's advise. <br> We all trust doctors and follow what they advise, I hope this is the situation for almost all of us. So don't worry about the past. It happened n let it go. All you have to do is to be fit eat well balanced diet, do exercises to stay healthy. Take care of your baby well.

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ashwini Sabadra

Hi anon,<br> I wud say many docs land woman into c-section just for earning purpose even if vaginal is psbl, n on contrary Ur x-doc wud say I wud have done it normally.... Just to make U feel u took wrong decision by changing doc.... <br> Pain normal me b he n cesearian me b he....<br> U both r safe n datz d priority

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Neha Vij

Thanks @636c8fae21791e0017462f8d for tagging. Hi Anon, first of all please don’t feel guilty. You are a strong mamma as c section is much difficult to handle than vaginal in terms of after care. See, there are many people including myself who have opted to planned c section. But we are not guilty. Whether by circumstance or by choice, it is also one of the methods to bring a human life in this world. And to us, only this should matter. I am a proud c section mom. My c section scar is a proof that I am strong. I am leading a happy life since the day my son was born. I chose to stay fit, enjoy life, shed weight, look smart, get rid of my c section kangaroo pouch and lead a normal life. I remember I took proper rest for 3 months so that my stitches could heal properly and thereafter I have been doing everything in the world from dancing to exercise to work to cooking and what not. So don’t be guilty momma. Be proud of yourself and don’t blame any one. Also you can not bring back time , so look for happiness in your child and set an example for him by staying strong and chin upon

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Neha Agarwal

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