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most mothers may go through the same, my whole day literally revolves around my baby..I live alone with my husband. my baby is 16 months.. nvr ready to eat food since the time I started with solids. I am in trauma. I get more exhausted. I feel like committing suicide everyday. what will happen to my baby is all that in my mind. I dont go out anywhere. cant take my baby out too..coz she isn't ready to eat in my absence nor presence. what bad have I done ?? to explain what I'm going through is beyond words. aftrr every 15 mins I have to think what I feed to my baby. I fear I may really not take my life to bring up my baby
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Astha Sharma Nagar

Hey.. First of all pls dont be disheartened. I am also facing same issue just that my daughter is 10 months old. I would suggest you to be calm first and erase negative thoughts before feeding your baby. Also play more with your baby. If u will always try to feed her she wont like it. Babies are very intelligent they cant remain hungry so if u will always pass on milk to her she will not try to eat as that is an easy option for them. So pls dont try to feef after every 15 mins take some gap. Let her play njoy and try to maintain food gaps. I myself struggle a lot with my daughter but I keep trying new things with her. Like offer finger foods and try to leave her alone and watch her from distance. You can giver her banana, mango shakes, fruit juices to her. Try to. Introduce different textures and colors. If that doesnt help take help from relatives and ask them to try to feed her.

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puja gupta

Whatever kind of mum u think you r... But no one gonna replace ur place for ur baby... U r the best in this world for ur baby remember that... Honestly sometimes even i feel so bad of taking care of my baby alone that i start crying but then i realise that its just few year of hiccup this is not gonna be a permanent thing... When they grow up u will not remember this stage at all.. Babies do tantrum... But eventually they will feel hungry so they will eat food... "Take care dear of urself coz ur life matters for her life "

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Nazia Afreen

No, you're not a bad mum. I too wasn't unable to breastfeed completely my baby. I too have feeding issues even till now. I too used screen as a distraction. And I too generally live alone. You are just having a postpartum depression phase which similarly lasted for me till almost two years. Don't even think about giving up your life. You may feel you are not raising your child properly. But the truth is kids throw such tantrums in front of those with whom they are most comfortable. Which means in your case it's you. This phase too shall pass. But your life once passed cannot be revived again. You are a great mum! We all have it! And you are doing your best in your motherhood journey! ❤️

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<span style="color:#3B5998;"><b> @5fdf2613be9755001403bc78 </b></span> . .I'm surely a bad mom...my every effort has failed..I have not been able to breastfeed my baby and now I can't even make her eat food..and now I'm thinking of giving up my life...my body has left no energy..I'm also a human I also need love and rest

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<span style="color:#3B5998;"><b> @5fedec01cccb6d0014097596 </b></span> I make my baby eat with help of TV or fone. from day one. I live alone.its not possible for me to everytime lock my home with maids to make my baby go to park for food.. I have believed that my baby won't eat like other babies..I keep trying frequently coz whatever I give she dosnt eat..and shows signs of hunger after every 1 or 1.5 hr..so I give her milk...when I try not giving her milk , I end up keeping her stomach empty for hours coz she anyway won't eat food...she just take few bites from banana that's all

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