Yes you need to reduce breast milk feeding you can start with pure coconut oil, cook all her foods in it

Please don't fret about weight, its genetic as well.

Doc has suggested that i hve to skip breastmilk session n increase her meals for weight gain but it seems she is nt ready for it.

She's vry active but m worried it will effect her health later. We hve used homemade ghee with diff recipes but it seems she doesn't like anything. Every time we hve to chase/ distract her so that she will atleast hve 2 3 spoons of it.

If your baby is active then don't worry about the weight. It will increase at appropriate time. If you are still concerned try to give healthy food like add homemade ghee in the food. Try giving small small meals baby will eat..