Thanks all... i agree all of above n do needful. :)

Hi dear, agree with all answers given by moms..give more time to elder one& try to make busy her in any activities..dont be angry ever on kids, otherwise they became more aggressive..talking with her gently ..dont worry, after her brother will be 6 months, both will play together..

Hey nidhi. ..u got perfect answers from all our moms. ..m completely agree with them. ..ur elder one need ur love, pamper n time. ..she think that u love him more than her n got angry. ..thats why she doing all tantrum. ..

Hi<br> It's very common as they become insecure, engaging them in baby's routines like choosing the dress for the day, helping you bring their diapers, switching off lights while the baby sleeps, introducing her to the baby, and let her play with your supervision will help handle this. But don't get angry with the elder one even if she does few mistakes as it would cause more aggressive behaviour. Hug her often talk to her about her <u>sibling</u> it will take time but eventually happen.

It is a very natural thing coming to a child who was first alone and pampered and now has to share everything with someone else..see your second baby mostly needs you physically..but the elder one needs you emotionally more..try to spend alone time with the kid..ask about what's happening in her life..also tell her how you had siblings and how you lived them..adjusted..even fought sometimes but basically loved them..tell her that you may be busier but you love her like you used to..create small moments which give her contentment that her place is as it was earlier in.everything..