Kids won't understand ur words u Need to direct them

First of all make her calm by giving her warm hug,u can tell her that u understand her n make eye to eye contact..once she gets calm then only u can direct them on correct behavior..

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My daughter is 2yrs old....she cries a lot..never obey my words...thats y i sometimes scold her dat i dont like...but i have to do to make her quiet...what else should i do...how to calm her ...without scolding her...because it hurts me too...plz help