Hey sis in our family we all are; eagerly waiting for baby girl.how could you think that it is bed thing to be a mother of baby girl? Girls are gift of God. Jab khuda khush hota h na to zamin pe betiya bhejta rehmat bana k . plz apni soch ko badalne ki koshish kro aap kabhi nhi sochegi kaash ladka <u>hota</u>

You all have written so well. I faced the same thing; by others. AND I must say I am very proud to have a baby girl.

Hi anon!<br> There could be various reasons for you to feel this way. It could be societal pressure/family pressure/some mental or emotional stress you have been through or may be the kind of life you have led so far. Try to find why is it that your heart so badly wants only a baby boy??? And what is it that will change now that you have a girl?? But before that don't get stressed. Look at your girl and think why is it that you don't get love for her?? Is she at fault??? Does she has anything to do with it? How is it a lil soul's mistake that she is born as a girl and not a boy. Think about yourself. What if you were treated a certain way just because u are a girl. We all are here to help each other overcome oir blocks/stress/concerns etc. Nobody will judge you for this . But you really and seriously need to tk time out and ask yourself why is it that you would not enjoy or be happy around her. Start loving her and only then will others be convinced of showing care. A mother is a child's only living hope when all else aint there. Be there for her. Tkcr.

I m sorry, don't feel like answering your question but I can just say you will fall in love, you need not do anything because babies are blessed with this charm be it a girl or boy and intact girls have more attractive traits

If we love some one it dosent matter it iz boy or girl, she is your kid if you behave on such way who will think of her, everybody else is thinking about waris n all but for mother her kid remain the same no matter what it is, plz change your prespactive at least for your girl she needs you most