Not to gain any extra mileage but to make u all aware how people treat other people & how fate becomes hostile towards u...my baby girl was just born on 23rd June in absence of my in-laws and husband. My parents took care of bills & medication from 7th month of pregnancy till delivery as environment as in-laws said pregnant women is not shown to doctor before delivery or may be didn't want to invest physically or monetarily. But there was lot more to my fate,; my father expired on 8th July when baby became 15 days old. Was it less that my married life had suffered and I had delivered through csearean a baby girl ? I m still at parents house and just father in-law came on demise ritual. After that they never bothered to make calls to me or my mom for condolence or baby whereabouts. I don't feel to live wd such family but relatives say everything well b fine once baby grows.
<font color ="#3b5998"><b> @616db0c7b986a10013971bd5 </b></font>.. I understand how difficult and unimaginable it is to take this step, but it's not just about self respect. It's about how the way u want to live ur life ahead.. Crying and begging for happiness from those who don't value u or being reason of ur own happiness..
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<font color ="#3b5998"><b> @616d93095988200013dc7e2b </b></font><font color ="#3b5998"><b></b></font><font color ="#3b5998"><b></b></font> : i was working earlier but my work life suffered due to distress in personal life. I will definitely seek job again after few months till my; baby turns into a toddler. My hubby doesn't have his own brain. my problem is expectations, and his problem is altruistic​ ( cares only abt his own/ own family). I know if I become submissive, they will welcome me, but that would mean end of my relation with maternal family coz they ask me not to keep any relation with mom & siblings due to false ego. Also my self respect would suffer. But if I dont give in I am afraid that I might hv to take support frm, tension, police case, court post that return will not be possible.
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I don't have words to write after reading this. May god give u much more happiness than the pain u have been facing. Please heal your body and heart by God's grace, heal your mom. After that look for a job, if still these people are not ready to take care of u and ur baby. I don't believe in false hope, I know no matter we do we can't change other person. Please be well stable financially first once you get back to normal.. That's the most imp and practical thing to do now... Side by side u can solve this emotional issue with them only if situation allows.. If they have decided to be like this forever, leave them.
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Dont worry dear remember one thing people are not bad only their thoughts are .if they will change their thought everything is fine.so try to undersatand what is the reasin why they behave like this and be positive <u>always</u>
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Jayalakshmi Nair
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07 Aug 2018